You don't seem understand that there is more than just one person in the act of sexual relations. Well maybe you don't as your only relation is with your hand. The issue isn't about the individual paying for sex. He is the exploiter. The prostitute is the victim as she is engaging in self harm.
But yea prostitution should be legal so you shouldn't feel ashamed about having to pay for sex.
Someone offers you $10 to have sex with them.
You consider it for a half-second, have sex, collect your $10.
How are you a victim?
No one said you were the victim. You are the exploiter. She is the victim as she is harming herself. You can keep repeating this question. I will keep giving you the same reply.
Also, answer my question since I answered yours. When was the last time you had sex you didn't pay for.
You think she is harming herself
She might not think that
What two consenting adults do is no one's business but theirs.
An heroin addict may not think he is harming himself, but he is inflicting self harm when he uses and is a victim of his own actions.
Under the existing prohibitive circumstances the heroin addict is definitely harming himself -- as is the beverage alcohol, tobacco, and calorie addict. But your comment would be less equivocal if you cited methamphetamine rather than heroin, because it is entirely possible to maintain a regulated heroin addiction without harming oneself.
If one has unrestricted and reliable access to pure, clinically sterile, accurately measured doses of heroin it is entirely possible to maintain a compulsive addiction to the drug with absolutely none of the negative effects which at present are commonly attributed to its use. In fact, regulated heroin use by one whose lifestyle and occupation excludes conflicting activities and requirements (operating machinery, etc.) the stress-relieving effect of heroin use will actually prolong one's life span.
The extremely negative effects of heroin use we are familiar with today are the direct result of its rigid prohibition. Today's heroin user never knows what he/she is using. They don't know the potency, the purity, or the measure of their daily doses. The situation is analogous to the effects of the "bathtub gin" sold by unscrupulous bootleggers during alcohol prohibition, some of which was concocted from anti-freeze and caused many deaths.
The simple fact is most of the harm caused by the use of
illegal drugs is the fault of the prohibitive laws. Simply stated, the use of recreational drugs is not nearly as harmful as is the wholly counterproductive
War On Drugs.
What America needs is an intelligent, sensible approach to the problem of drug abuse.