seeing so many stories on social media with a woman who secretly wanted a husband who is a good provider and a bad boy to **** on the side
And when they are caught they are never apologetic instead they are confrontational. Why even get married if you are a man?
Pisses me off man
As the old saying goes, You can not make a Ho into a housewife.
Yeah, I've read that nearly 1/3rd of all men who visit prostitutes, say openly they thought they would find true love. Which is bonkers. It's the "Pretty Woman" Hollywood crap love story.
Yet I've met men who married such a girl, and it didn't turn out so pretty. He was living the single life, going to the bars, drinking the night away, and met a bar tender girl at one of them, who performed a lap dance for him.
OF course she performed a lap dance for everyone who stuffed money in her cloth patches. Next thing he knew, he thought he was in love, and met her every other night for a lap dance. Months later, they get married. They live together. And guess who was back at the bar doing lap dances.... of course that's what she does, and enjoys the attention. Shockingly, that didn't work well with him, for his wife to be doing lap dances with other men.
He was an idiot. You can marry a reformed ho (past tense), but not reform a ho. If she isn't reformed already... move on. Unless she's already convinced to change, you certainly are not going to change her.