Parental supervision..........In the equal sense, people can be bothered by messaging in movies and it isn't wrong.
Because you are not, doesn't mean others shouldn't be.
Suspending reality to watch movies is a given. However, a good film maker knows the story needs to be believable.
The example I have used 1000 times - would it matter if Darth Vader's outfit was pink polka dots? Yeah... it would.
As for messaging, it matters. Especially when a film targets a young audience. Kids are very impressionable.
You want to be upset by a "message" in a movie? Go right ahead, I don't have a problem with that.