Well, according to the OP, I'm old (over 30) and have a child, so I must be a POS, not worthy of anything but an ass smelling.
Can you refute the generalizations adequately? The logic is sound. Have you destroyed a marriage? Have you passionately avoided commitment? Do you expect your men to be godlike?
It really doesn't matter what the OP says. It matters what you say. Are you a psycho path unworthy of a relationship? or is the OP dead wrong about women over 30 who are single? It seems to me that you should have been married by now. What is the hold up?