When I could no longer buy lawn darts or a gas can that works. Seriously, when it became clear that every single aspect of my life in now over-regulated by some bureaucrats. Throw in agendas and agencies with unending power like the EPA.
Dude! Who the heck are you? Where do you live? What in God's name are you trying to do? Sure from time to time I encounter a government regulation that is an irritant, but is "every single aspect of my life in now over-regulated?" Not even close. How could I not think America is a great place? I've:
- Paid my taxes and have money left to enjoy life.
- Raised three kids who've never wanted for thing.
- Been educated in some of the best schools and universities on the planet.
- Enjoy a rewarding and interesting career, one that is entirely of my choosing.
- Bought/built homes in four states.
- Have access to among the best health care to be had.
- Travel the country and the globe weekly.
- Eat a variety of foods from burgers and fries to delicacies from around the world, all in the U.S.
- Party like it's 1999 and 1979 at will.
- Walk America's streets in fear of nobody and nothing.
- ***** and moan about nearly every injustice I see, and neither I nor my family suffer legally, socially or politically for it. (other than headaches and sadness from the BS I see on this site)
- Have never been wrongfully accused of a crime.
- Not once had to worry about the horrors of war, pestilence or famine happening in my backyard.
I think some folks just sit around looking for stuff to gripe about and upon finding it infer that the whole nation has gone to hell in a handbasket. Nothing could be farther from the truth. The U.S. has its problems, that's for sure, but
not great,
not by a long shot!!
I have much the same personal experience as you. Unfortunately, I don't see this for the next generation. I mean go down your list.
- Paid my taxes and have money left to enjoy life.
- I'm watching families with 2 college educated parents struggle to pay the bills.
- Raised three kids who've never wanted for thing.
- Those same families struggle to provide healthcare for their kids.
- Been educated in some of the best schools and universities on the planet.
- Those same families not even considering the best schools because they can't afford it.
- Enjoy a rewarding and interesting career, one that is entirely of my choosing.
- Often finding a job is a major victory, I recently read a report stating that 50% of college grads are working at jobs that don't require a college degree.
- Bought/built homes in four states.
- Home ownership at levels not seen since the mid 60s.
- Have access to among the best health care to be had.
- If you can afford it. More and more less likely.
- Travel the country and the globe weekly.
- If you can afford it. More and more less likely.
- Eat a variety of foods from burgers and fries to delicacies from around the world, all in the U.S.
- If you can afford it. More and more less likely.
- Party like it's 1999 and 1979 at will.
- If you can afford it. More and more less likely.
- Walk America's streets in fear of nobody and nothing
- . Depends on where you live.
- ***** and moan about nearly every injustice I see, and neither I nor my family suffer legally, socially or politically for it. (other than headaches and sadness from the BS I see on this site)
- That remains the same.
- Have never been wrongfully accused of a crime.
- Agrred
- Not once had to worry about the horrors of war, pestilence or famine happening in my backyard.
- Agreed
It's not that country is now a horrible place, just heading in the wrong direction really, really fast .
I think we could all benefit from what is taught in this clip from
The West Wing....
To understand it, you have to know that Rob Lowe's character worked at a firm called "Gage Whitney" and they were going to make him a partner in the law firm before he decided to join the Bartlet Campaign as a speech writer and senior aide.... In this scene, He's holding a meeting with his opposite numbers who work for Congresspersons who want to use the upcoming release of economic news for political advantage...
The wealthy used to understand this. Often times (and for good reason) many do not understand it today....
Those that benefitted from the wealth's largess used to take full advantage of the opportunities of scholarships and internships and what-have-you....now many want to be paid for internships and use their scholarships to go on a 4 year drinking binge.
Its a cyclical thing....
I think the problem these days is that we hear folks like Warren Buffett say they can afford to pay higher taxes and we think, "yes, well, he can; he's got billions." What we need to hear is the folks who are not that well off, but who are nonetheless in the 1%, saying the same thing...because, quite frankly, it's true for them too. But most folks in that position aren't about to say that because, IMO, they are just plain greedy...that or they genuinely believe that "he who dies with the most wins."
Why not? Well, for one thing, when you look at your 1040 and see in black and white that you've paid some $350K to the IRS, there's no way to not think, "Damn! That's a lot of money! And what the heck did I get for it?" You aren't thinking about the "big picture" and the fact that the country would go to pot if you didn't. You're just thinking you need to talk with your financial advisor and come up with some better ways to lower your tax bill.
People who are doing well do still understand it. Just like everyone, well off folks seek to minimize their tax bill. Nobody, rich, poor or in between jumps for joy over paying more taxes. Way back when in the Reagan era, I remember bumping into a friend of my father's while we were out running errands. I don't recall how the conversation (theirs; I was just present) got onto it, but the lady began ranting about the Reagan tax cuts and how unfair they were....her reasoning...the cut was saving her ~$40...this at a time when that was a decent salary. Her point: sure, they were going to avail themselves of the savings, but at the end of the day, saving it or not wasn't going to alter hers and her family's lifestyle; it just wasn't necessary, and the thing is that one didn't have to be as well off as she for the cut to have been necessary.
There's another thing going on these days that I frankly do not understand at all. I don't know how it is where you live, but in the D.C. metro area it seems to me the majority of new homes are priced at $600-700K to start. I honestly don't get that...I drive out to visit my folks in the burbs and everywhere I look, former farmland is not a subdivision of "McMansions." Everywhere, I see a new development, the signs say "luxury homes starting the in low $600s," or often enough, more. Where are the signs saying, "nice homes starting in the mid $300s?" (
Of course, it's possible to buy something for less, a lot less, than $600K, but it's just that, a lot less than a single family home.)
I ask myself, "where are all these people coming from who can afford to buy houses like that?" It's not that I'm shocked to see pricey homes, it's the quantity of them that just doesn't make sense to me. Even as that makes no sense to me, I know builders don't just build homes like that on the "off chance" that they'll sell. They have to have a reasonable basis for making the investment to develop the land. And that tells me that there must be enough folks around with the money to buy homes like that. And the only way there are enough people to buy homes of that sort is the country is, at least economically, doing well.
I have to assume there are enough people around to buy all these new homes, because I drive by the new subdivisions year in and year out and watch them fill up, I have seen over the past 30 years the huge change in the traffic patterns and volumes when I venture into the burbs to visit friends and family or go shopping. My family's business is real estate, although not single family home building, and I see the same general pattern there as well in terms of the cost per square foot just keeps increasing and the occupancy rates stay very high.
The point there is that folks who have cash to spend are coming from somewhere, and they keep coming. Now, to my mind, the only way that happens is if the economic state of the country is decent overall. It has to be because the D.C. area isn't inexpensive and most folks who are here came here from somewhere else. D.C. isn't the kind of area one can come to bordering on flat broke and expect that one is going to find the "pot at the end of the rainbow" here. (One might be able to pull off something like that living some 40 or 50 miles outside the city, but in D.C. Metro, that ain't happening.)
So when I see all these folks coming to the D.C. area from "wherever" and buying these fancy homes, I have to think that "life is good" outside the beltway too, no matter all the kvetching that various politicos do. All that griping strikes me as a lot of disingenuous jockeying for power rather than legitimately sounding the alarm because there is something really wrong, again, economically.
Truly, if I were to posit any single thing is wrong, it'd be that too many folks are spending right at their means in an effort to reach for that little bit more...which in turn straps them for cash and puts them just a couple paychecks away from ruin. I think folks who do that know that's what they've done and it makes them nervous, for good reason. The thing is that doing that was their choice; nobody made them buy that fancy house with the graduate's/nanny's apartment above the garage.
They sat with a realtor and a banker and thought, "well, if we stretch a little and cut back on 'such and such' a little, we can get it...and it's so lovely...yatta, yatta, yatta," and now there they are in their lovely home feeling strapped....and presumable echoing the cry of "the country's falling apart; the average person just can't get ahead."
Clown! WTH are you thinking? You bought a $600K+ home. You aren't an average person/earner. You're a well above average earner who's overextended yourself and now it's somebody else's fault. Well, I'm sorry, but it's nobody else's fault. You were/are, as my welfare mentorees would say, "frontin," it's caught up with you, and now here you are singin' the blues, "Woe is me! for I am undone. They did me wrong." [adaptation of
Isaiah 6:5 &
Jeremiah 4:31] (I stuck with the figure I began with above, but the same principle -- overextending oneself -- applies at higher or lower price points.)
Now on the social side of things, yes, I think the country is headed toward hell in a handbasket. Why is beyond me seeing as economically most folks are doing okay and I'm no sociologist or cultural anthropologist.