That should go without saying. She has two children, both of them very obviously boys, and she thought they might be girls. She spent a few years chasing down that rabbit hole before she realized how fucked up it was, and what she was doing to her sons. Thankfully, she came to her senses, before she did any serious, irreversible damage to her boys.
Again, it sounds to me that she had some fairly crazy ideas about parenting to start with.
So by your dubious logic, if a kid decides they are transgender, despite being raised by cis-gendered, heterosexual parents... that would be proof that they really are transgender, right?
Sane people do not get confused this way, about the difference between boys and girls.
Uh, Bob, you think you are wearing magic underwear and will rule a planet in the afterlife... you don't get to talk about "Sane".
One does not need to be directly affected by a particular evil, to recognize that it is evil, to recognize that people are harm by it, and to wish to oppose that evil and prevent that harm.
Again, not seeing how this is "evil". I mean, it offends your sensibilities, to be sure. But that sounds kind of like your hangup.
I see our society on a path that leads to it being seriously fucked up in the not-too-distant future. I'm old enough that I can hope to leave this world, before it gets really bad to where it would directly affect me. My wife and I never had any children, so we don't have to worry about what kind of world we're leaving for them. I just have to endure whatever happens to society until my time comes to an end; and rationally, I could choose not to give a shit who fucks up society how badly, after I am no longer around to experience it.
Well, we can all agree, the world will be better once you've gone off to the Celestial Heaven, or where you think you are going.
All that said, you are upset that as a white, cisgendered, heterosexual, male, that people who don't fit into those boxes are actually getting the same privileges you are. The horror of it all.
That's up for debate.
I don't want people to suffer, to be harmed, undeservedly, even if they are people that I do not know, who will never directly affect me. I want my society, my culture to thrive, even after I am no longer around to see it.
Here's the thing. Society is always changing.
70 years ago, women having careers and blacks riding on the front of the bus was considered the end of the culture.