There is so much wrong with what you just posted. I'll focus on just one. You think the pot escape is going to help them with their situation?
I think society doesn't want to help them. Instead, it simply blames the victim, ignoring how many people become ruined not because of not working hard or smart, but because of negligence and abuse.
If society wants to make a difference, it would expect people to graduate philosophical rites of passage before being allowed to participate in the public sphere, but instead of recognizing objective morals, it insists on rugged individualism instead.
There are countless programs to help these people and nothing has worked. I don't buy that the majority are abused or even hated. It's government who created this vicious cycle of welfare parents raising more welfare recipients. It's government that has helped ruined the family unit and encourages dependency.
The result is people who rely on government rather than on their own good judgment. Allowing drugs to be purchased with EBT cards will only make the problem worse. Like parents who put their foot down and get youngsters to toe the line, government needs to nudge people off of welfare by setting rules and strongly enforcing welfare to work. People should be required to attend classes if they need to get a GED and they should be encouraged to at least go to trade school. The government programs, which cost billions, are already in place, but clearly they need to change their strategy.
When will politicians admit that the current system makes the problem worse? Throwing more money at it isn't the answer. No one holds people accountable for their own actions. The best way to teach responsibility is to give people responsibility and let them know they need to better themselves. No one can do it for them.
Instead of looking the other way when people use welfare money for pot, which will make their lives even more pathetic, how about going the other way and actually expecting people to act like adults and make better choices. They, and the rest of us, will win.