The system of government our founders set up was a republic with a representative democracy overseen by strict rules of separation of powers.
Ignorance of the difference between democracy and representation in a republic has given us the adulterated view that obama has complete authority because he received 51% of the vote. The representatives in the Senate and Congress have no voice, obama is the supreme leader Their job is not to limit his actions only to those achieved with the advise and consent of the people's representatives, but rubber stamp whatever he wants to do. If we were a democracy instead of a republic we would have no need of either senators or congressmen. We would elect a king, democratically of course.
There is a middle ground. It's where most of us reside and what most of us are comfortable with. It's not an "all or nothing" proposition. Balance is the key.
No it's really not a balancing approach. Democracy is tyranny. A republic is by representation. The two interests cannot be balanced by permitting just a little bit of tyranny.
This is the way it has worked out. The rules of government apply to conservatives. They don't apply to liberals because they never make a mistake. They are always right and everything they want to do is always the best way. Therefore merely opposing them is wrong.
Bush approved waterboarding which liberals opposed as being torture and against the rules of a civilized society. Yet, obama approves outright murder, without evidence or benefit of trial. This is reasonable to liberals. No court, no senate, no congress should interfere in the formulation or application of his hit list. It cannot even be questioned. Bush might make a mistake and waterboard an innocent person. obama, as a liberal, cannot make a mistake.
Liberals believe that conservatives should not punish immigrant children for the crimes of their parents in coming here illegally. But, liberals also believe that killing a 16 year old boy is reasonable because his father is a terrorist. Even if the child did nothing wrong.
Non representative democracy is tyranny. There is no other way around it. Either you like the tyranny, in which case it's a good thing, or you don't.