Turning against Muslims won't 'save America', instead getting out of the Middle East will. It is all thanks to attempts to change the Middle East that ISIS and other extremist groups now thrive in the Middle East.
If we had never supported Bin Laden and Al Qaeda, then the Soviets would have likely defeated them and the Taliban; and Afghanistan would be more like other ex-soviet states.
If we had never supported Saddam Hussein, then the Iran-Iraq war, and Iraq's war on Kuwait wouldn't have happened. The earlier allowed the Iranian government to go on a killing spree of its own people.
If we kept out of Libya, then an American ambassador would still be alive, and Ghadaffi would have kept his country from falling to religious extremist groups.
If we had left Assad's dictatorship alone instead of trying to topple it, ISIS would have been quashed by Assad before it became a greater threat.
And then there is the fact that we fund and support theocratic governments throughout the middle east that kill and oppress their population on a regular basis, including killing 'gays', 'heretics' and woman for 'defying the state/Islam'.
If you want Muslims to stop hating America, and plotting violence against western nations. It is still going to happen within our lifetime, even if we invade every Middle Eastern country and raise our flag on it.
It took centuries alone for Christians to stop killing each other, and propping up theocracies to 'fight terror' won't convince Muslims to stop killing each other. They need to find reason their own way, just as a few countries like Tunisia are starting to do.