evenflow1969
Gold Member
Well my sister has been ran ragged do to covid. Not just do to amount of patients but also do to staff shortages being out with covid. My father died in December not do directly to covid but the ICU was filled and not enough man power to deal with the patio coming in. Dad likely would have lived longer under normal circumstances. As far as decision s for what Mr g wants to do I would choose to spend my limited time at home for what that is worth.I need to stay as healthy as possible. If I get sick...we both are lost and at the mercy of...whomever. I have to be at the hospital..OUTSIDE...at 10am to meet the notary lady that is coming to notarize a power of attorney for me...without me present since I am not allowed inside. This is so I can do his finances, etc. Then I have to take that paper to the bank so I can withdraw or deposit monies in his account and take care of financial business on his part. Then I have to get my van out of the repair shop, call yolanda at the hospice place and see if she has advice for me, then harass the hospital for answers they are not giving, then check the bank for his ss deposit and get a copy of what is in there so I can tell Dennis (MrG) what his balance is, yadda yadda. And hanging over my head is him asking ME what I think he should do and me telling him its his choice..I will back him in whatever he decides but both of us not knowing WHAT to decide BECAUSE WE ARE NOT GETTING AQNY FUCKING ANSSWERS. Covid, ya know. Too busy with sick people and he is just an old man with a disease we didn't even know existed until last month.