How did the spirit reveal it? And I just asked god, no shit, and am awaiting his answer. How long does it usually take for an answer?
Long enough for you to be humble and sincere and believe that you can get an answer.
What's it been, like, a week, two? Still no answer.
God isn't someone you can be flippant with or mock. He knows your heart. He knows whether you sincerely are seeking the truth or are simply playing games.
When you are humble and sincere, asking in faith believing you can recieve an answer if there is a God, He will reveal Himself to you. But if you think you can play games and not really care, then you will never find your answer.
I didn't know whether there was a God when i sought Him. I just wanted to know the Truth. If there was a God I wanted to know if there was one. So I had faith and shared that with Him. I told Him if He would show me the Truth I would follow Him where it took me. And the Spirit revealed Himself to me when He was ready and it a way that was impossible for me to deny.
My only disappointment is that I've been human and not lived up to the promise to follow Him as I should have. I've been slow to listen and often disobedient and full of contention rather than love. Thankfully God is merciful. And He has provided an Atonement to make up for my weaknesses and pains.
You may not know God. But He loves you. He is your Father in Heaven. But in His mercy He keeps people from knowing Him unless they sincerely seek Him out in humility and exercising even a small amount of faith.
Here are some questions to ask to yourself honestly. We don't need to know the answers. You already do:
1) If you knew God was real, would you follow Him or would you continue to do as you wish?
2) If there is a God, could you believe that He would have the power to reveal himself to you, even if you don't understand why He doesn't do it to everyone at once?
3) Would you rather stay in ignorance or would you rather seek out and find the truth?
4) Are you willing to admit that you might not know everything and that you could learn more?
Like I said, ask them to yourself. Ponder them. And then seek the Lord in prayer. Get on your knees and show your faith calling out to God even if you don't know He is there. yeah it may seem silly. But experiment on the word.
Seek the Truth in your life. Be honest with everyone. Even with yourself. Study. Learn. Think and ponder. Search the scriptures. Search what has been written for and against and try to find out for yourself the Truth.
And serve others. provide acts of service and kindness to each member of your family. Serve your coworkers. Be kind to people.
Don't do this for just one day or one week. Try to sincerely do this for a month or two. Do this and I am confident that the Spirit reveal Himself to you. Even if it's on the very last day you are trying this.