"The One" - True Love ?

[saveliberty]

I can tell you pawing their face or leaving extra fur on the couch does NOT work.

 

[saveliberty]

People that feel it - returned or not - should consider themselves lucky......
I have felt "head over heels" but consider that infatuation, as it wears off - I don't know if it requires work to keep that alive or what... that is the part that mystifies me.....

WORK, more work, followed by work.

 

[saveliberty]

Last year I was at wits end because Mrs. Liberty didn't seem happy and I was not happy. Then she tells me she is content and stop trying so hard to make her happy. Pretty big ah hah moment.

 

[G.T.]

I think if there is one person meant for you, they would feel the same. I really don't know, I have never loved someone that didn't love me back.....

I don't think it's possible to feel the exact same way towards any 2 persons, so, that being said, there will be, in your life time, one that stands out.... in the end......

I dont think of it as "meant," just love. And it could be that for one person the things theyre longing for are 100% within a person but it wouldnt be reciprocal because the odds are so tiny thats all

 

[Bonzi]

I guess that's why marriage/relationships where each feels that kind of intensity of love for one another is so rare... good point.....

 

[G.T.]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

 

[Bonzi]

Last year I was at wits end because Mrs. Liberty didn't seem happy and I was not happy. Then she tells me she is content and stop trying so hard to make her happy. Pretty big ah hah moment.

Whatever works for the 2 people involved really....
Personally, I like feeling of any emotional highs (except for anxiety and stress - I like to keep those at a very low minimum) - but fear like exhilaration of a roller coaster, or anticipation of seeing someone, surprises, etc. Even having your heart broken can make you feel alive. It would be (in my opinion) much better than being numb.

 

[Bonzi]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

 

[G.T.]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

Lucky, delusional, crazy, dreaming, a go getter or a sit byer. I have no idea what I just said, either.

 

[Bonzi]

People that feel it - returned or not - should consider themselves lucky......
I have felt "head over heels" but consider that infatuation, as it wears off - I don't know if it requires work to keep that alive or what... that is the part that mystifies me.....

WORK, more work, followed by work.

I guess I am the person (someone said it earlier in the thread) that maybe was fooled by movies and TV.
It seem that if I have to TRY to keep the love/passion alive, then, it's manufactured.
Seems like it should be just natural -

 

[Bonzi]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

Lucky, delusional, crazy, dreaming, a go getter or a sit byer. I have no idea what I just said, either.

it made no ******* sense.. but oh well

 

[G.T.]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

Lucky, delusional, crazy, dreaming, a go getter or a sit byer. I have no idea what I just said, either.

it made no ******* sense.. but oh well

This response made me crack a smirk though - so I guess it wasnt completely a throw away line sukka!

 

[Bonzi]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

Lucky, delusional, crazy, dreaming, a go getter or a sit byer. I have no idea what I just said, either.

If I felt that way I would put it all out on the table - easy to say when you are not in that position though! But living in the agony of not knowing? No. No way.

 

[saveliberty]

People that feel it - returned or not - should consider themselves lucky......
I have felt "head over heels" but consider that infatuation, as it wears off - I don't know if it requires work to keep that alive or what... that is the part that mystifies me.....

WORK, more work, followed by work.

I guess I am the person (someone said it earlier in the thread) that maybe was fooled by movies and TV.
It seem that if I have to TRY to keep the love/passion alive, then, it's manufactured.
Seems like it should be just natural -

What a great gift to be able to manufacture love.

 

[Bonzi]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

Lucky, delusional, crazy, dreaming, a go getter or a sit byer. I have no idea what I just said, either.

it made no ******* sense.. but oh well

This response made me crack a smirk though - so I guess it wasnt completely a throw away line sukka!

you're the one that said you didn't know what you said.... I was just agreeing with your sorry ass

 

[Bonzi]

People that feel it - returned or not - should consider themselves lucky......
I have felt "head over heels" but consider that infatuation, as it wears off - I don't know if it requires work to keep that alive or what... that is the part that mystifies me.....

WORK, more work, followed by work.

I guess I am the person (someone said it earlier in the thread) that maybe was fooled by movies and TV.
It seem that if I have to TRY to keep the love/passion alive, then, it's manufactured.
Seems like it should be just natural -

What a great gift to be able to manufacture love.

I think that is why I will never be able to love.
It has to be natural and reciprocal.
I understand the work of getting along regarding agreements on money, kids etc.
But the passion, desire and attraction to one another ..... much be close to equal......

 

[saveliberty]

you're the one that said you didn't know what you said.... I was just agreeing with your sorry ass

Everyone here seems pretty confused by love.

 

[G.T.]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

Lucky, delusional, crazy, dreaming, a go getter or a sit byer. I have no idea what I just said, either.

If I felt that way I would put it all out on the table - easy to say when you are not in that position though! But living in the agony of not knowing? No. No way.

Not everything is even a choice, in Black Jack do you hit in 17? Well, it all depends.

 

[G.T.]

This Woman I work with who used to be my boss, and now we are peers - she used to tell oh Im the best and are so handsome and her best worker and this and this.....shes beautiful. Blue eyes, amazing everything. And her personality didnt even change towards me when I stopped working for her, so I had to drop thinking it was some weird encouragement tactic. Long story short though, shed meet all of my standards for everything but I get literally zero rush from her at all, feelings wise. And thats WITH liking her personality. So, whatever is missing there is whatever the **** weird x factor that I kind of believe in more and more, but Im not able to actually put to words.

I have heard that from people..... WHY do I love this person? Sometimes they can be totally wrong for you, but just that "something" - reminds me of the song "I Hate Myself For Loving You" - - that feeling is something that can't be manufactured.....

I have had friend that would pine people (one friend, a guy I played tennis with) and I was like get over her already! I just couldn't understand!

Anyone that experiences that, to me, is lucky....

Lucky, delusional, crazy, dreaming, a go getter or a sit byer. I have no idea what I just said, either.

it made no ******* sense.. but oh well

This response made me crack a smirk though - so I guess it wasnt completely a throw away line sukka!

you're the one that said you didn't know what you said.... I was just agreeing with your sorry ass

 

[G.T.]

you're the one that said you didn't know what you said.... I was just agreeing with your sorry ass

Everyone here seems pretty confused by love.

yo, i love you bro