"The One" - True Love ?

[saveliberty]

Some people still look at their spouses and love them - or wanna jump their bones. They are the lucky ones!

Attitude is often the only thing a person can change. Allow yourself to be empowered.

 

[Iceweasel]

Staying together is a good thing, my hat's off to anyone that does. But the concept that there's just one person that's the right one is foolish. I've heard many people say it's the "one". Give me a break. The only way you stay together is if you both work for the same goal, not because of some mystical preordained force.

oh i dont think its mystical. Real though.....definitely.

You can believe anything but that doesn't make it real.

 

[Iceweasel]

The only person people "fall in love" with is their newly born child the first time they are in your arms.
You might "fall in lust" or "fall in infatuation" but there is no such thing as "fall in love" in a romantic sense.
It doesn't happen. Love is something that occurs over a long time with that person.

you musta never had that collapsed insides feeling - its like a powerful drive to just want to see someone smile and very hard to describe. Im not religious at all, either.

Sounds like he was talking about instant love.

 

[saveliberty]

Bonzi, I have had strong feelings of despair and hopelessness in love and marriage before. All I can say is time works for you sometimes and I hope you can feel loving arms wrapped around you with a feeling of content and belonging from the one you chose.

 

[saveliberty]

The three powers of the Universe:

Energy, intelligence and love.

 

[Iceweasel]

Staying together is a good thing, my hat's off to anyone that does. But the concept that there's just one person that's the right one is foolish. I've heard many people say it's the "one". Give me a break. The only way you stay together is if you both work for the same goal, not because of some mystical preordained force.

oh i dont think its mystical. Real though.....definitely.

You can believe anything but that doesn't make it real.

When you're talking about something intangible, of course belief makes it real. It doesnt matter if the outsider doesnt get it, or have it, and who gives a **** what they think anyways? If its fake then who wants real, is how it makes you feel.

How can you love someone you don't even know when you only have looks to go on? Why does it matter? Because a LOT of people bought the Hollywood bullshit and have suffered greatly because of it.

 

[saveliberty]

Respect is closely aligned to love. Women often withhold respect when they feel unloved. It becomes a vicious cycle of disrespect and unloving words and actions. Break the cycle.

 

[Bonzi]

how about this, can they be "the one" if the feelings are not returned?

 

[saveliberty]

how about this, can they be "the one" if the feelings are not returned?

Yep, unlock the inner love and respect.

 

[Bonzi]

I think if there is one person meant for you, they would feel the same. I really don't know, I have never loved someone that didn't love me back.....

I don't think it's possible to feel the exact same way towards any 2 persons, so, that being said, there will be, in your life time, one that stands out.... in the end......

 

[Bonzi]

how about this, can they be "the one" if the feelings are not returned?

Yep, unlock the inner love and respect.

hmmm I will have to give that some thought.....

 

[saveliberty]

how about this, can they be "the one" if the feelings are not returned?

Yep, unlock the inner love and respect.

hmmm I will have to give that some thought.....

Hard to not return a little love to someone who is trying really hard to make you feel loved.

 

[Bonzi]

how about this, can they be "the one" if the feelings are not returned?

Yep, unlock the inner love and respect.

hmmm I will have to give that some thought.....

Hard to not return a little love to someone who is trying really hard to make you feel loved.

Probably love there, maybe just not the same intensity.... but it's hard to pigeon-hole this. We're talking emotions, feelings..... and some just don't get to experience it at all....

 

[Bonzi]

People that feel it - returned or not - should consider themselves lucky......
I have felt "head over heels" but consider that infatuation, as it wears off - I don't know if it requires work to keep that alive or what... that is the part that mystifies me.....