Bullshit, no kid is supposed to get whipped, that's child abuse.
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By all means, call in the therapist and start pumping in those drugs at the first opportunity. THAT is child abuse, you flaccid fool.
Especially when the kid doesn't even need drugs, and is just on them because his/her idiot parent can't be bothered being a real parent and dealing with the problems their child has.
Okay, I'm a mom of two special needs kids. Both ends of the autism spectrum. Originally, my oldest was diagnosed with ADHD. FYI, those drugs don't work if they don't have it, the drugs have the opposite effect and made the situation worse. For my son, the drug I put him on in first grade work. I took him off of it in third grade when he started developing facial ticks. That medication he was on, one of the side effects were torrette's syndrome, and it was permanent.
One of my friends once said to me about my oldest child "If you spanked him more often, wouldn't he act more normal?" I was never so hurt in my life. You can't spank the special needs out of a child. You can't discipline it out of him.
Not one of you knows what you are talking about.
And FYI, ADHD is not a made up disorder, there is a physical difference in the brain. The problem is, they don't want to put kids through the kind of test to determine that, so they make guesses and usually do a blind study. This kid is put on pills for 3 weeks, a different pill every week, one of them is a placebo and only the one running the study knows which. Then they figure out if the drug was working or not. If it was, they keep the kid on it.
My son was on a drug from 1st - 3rd grade. I took him off due to the side effects.
ADHD do not need to be spanked more, they don't need more discipline, they need accommodations.
My son was so hyper in first grade he couldn't sit still for 5 minutes. The teacher's answer to that was to keep him in at recess and make him sit in his chair, of course, that just made things even worse. I think common sense should be a requirement for teachers.
When I suggested they take him out at recess they were all indignant. "He can't be rewarded for misbehaving." Well recess isn't a reward, it's a requirement. I suggested that instead of trying to make him sit still for recess, they take him out and make him run laps so he will be tired enough after recess to sit still. Again, they were all indignant "We can't do that, that's the teachers break time. No one can watch him, or make him run laps." That school was filled with idiots. And all of them thought my son needed more discipline. What he needed was a class structure that worked with him not against him.
I finally took him out of that school and started homeschooling him. Today he says that he's sorry I ever put him back in the public schools. He thinks he would have been better off without them. I wish I'd kept him home too. I'm sorry, he could pass the tests with an "A" but because he couldn't do their little busy work homework, they wanted to flunk him. They of course didn't follow his IEP which required that they tell ME what his homework assignments were so I could make sure he did them. No, they waited until 2 weeks before the semester ended to give me this gigantic list of homework he hadn't completed. His IEP REQUIRED that they inform me DAILY. I had to fight to get them not to flunk him, and I'm sorry if he knows the subject, how can you flunk him? If YOU didn't follow his IEP, how is it HIS fault?
ADHD, like Autism, is a neurobiological disorder. That means there is a physical difference in the brain. A physical difference in the brain means they didn't just make it up out of thin air. It exists. All the discipline in the world isn't going to make and ADHD person "normal".