Then we disagree. What if my example is a 13 year old? Do they have the age and experience to make the decision? To me it's a family's decision, and when they are under the age and living at home, their parents should have a right to help decide in the decision.
Not the state, not the country, but the family. We should not be ordering laws that interfere with Family, PRIVATE MATTERS.
But disagreement is the heart of debate, not much debating without it
No, she does not have the experience or age but that is rather irrelevant to be honest. What is in the balance is the right over one’s self. The age is irrelevant outside of medical necessity. You make the claim that we should not be making laws that interfere with private decisions but that is exactly what this type of law is doing, taking over a private decision.
It seems that you feel the decision is NOT the ‘girls’ (as we are not talking about women here) and that is the crux of the argument. The problem I have with that is essentially you are saying that the parent should have the right to FORCE a 13 year old in your example to have a baby that she does not want to have. THAT, to me, is unacceptable. What you have done is NOT getting the government out of a private matter. Instead, you have used the government to SHIFT the power of that decision to someone else. That is far closer to adding government in that decision than taking it out. This is not and never was a family matter. It is a personal matter.
Now, with that stated, parents in this situation are VERY important. In that, I think and stated that a parent should be informed of the decision. Expanding on that, they should be a PART of that process. I fully agree with that BUT that does not mean they are the final arbiter of getting that abortion. No one, ever, should be allowed to force an abortion or prevent one that is within reasonable regulations. You are advocating the complete removal of control over another’s body. I find that notion abhorrent.