Straight talk and it's depressing. I will never get married again...

[Rocko]

Anyone here who has been divorced feel free to share your experiences.
It goes beyond marraige, how will I be able to trust a woman again with my heart? Share a home or even a bed together? Being alone isn't natural, we are social beings, we want to love and be loved, we want a peaceful existence, a calm discussion among nature. Once you experience a certain trauma it is impossible to believe it could not happen again even as you feel.the need to be human again.

Forever is a long time. Get a gym membership, try to get 20 minutes of sunlight a day, and get in the habit of talking to people, especially women. Like anything else, practice makes perfect. The more you practice socializing the more comfortable and better at it you get.

 

[Natural Citizen]

Forever is a long time. Get a gym membership, try to get 20 minutes of sunlight a day, and get in the habit of talking to people, especially women. Like anything else, practice makes perfect. The more you practice socializing the more comfortable and better at it you get.

I think he should just hobo it. Hop on a freight train and explore the continent.

If he had money, I'd say buy an RV and check out the real world, but doesn't seem to be the case, so hoboing it might be the poor man's alternative.

 

[shockedcanadian]

Anyone who'd abuse a dog is someone I'd get the hell away from.
People like that have mental issues.

She always has an excuse or denies it after she tells me she did it. When the police entered our home and split us up, my dog came to my side, he went to hers maybe for a.few.seconds and then he returned immediately back to mine. This says a hell of a lot.

 

[whitehall]

A local babe married a Canadian and it didn't last long.

 

[Bobob]

If you have been married that long you only know about one woman. I've cohabited with a least a dozen women. The only way to really know if one is a bitch is to live with them a while.

Amen! Once the dating honeymoon is over and living together is the name of the game, the true
disposition of your partner will rear its ugly head if that is what it turns out to be. I have experience
with this phenomenon, and it ain't purty.

 

[JohnDB]

My problem is I met my wife just as she lost her Mother.and had faced.a.recent breakup. She was in mourning and a far more gentle person. Over the years she became the worst you could imagine, verbally,.physically and in terms of threats. Americans dont appreciate how vicious this system is. I was essentially held hostage and abused and she laughs as the system lets her, yet again, as it has for many years, try and feign something six months later and blame it on a push. Thankfully I saved all of the voicemails as she drove around the city trying to get ANY b.s doctors assessment.

Yep....you need her recorded practically 24/7. You don't go near her without your phone recording her in some fashion of voice or video.

That's for Your protection. Trust me....your lawyer will know exactly what to do with the evidence. Canadian laws are tricky when it comes to divorce. So make sure you have a good lawyer that's going to be a shark for you. Because you want her lawyer to look at her as if she is stinky fish....and the more real evidence you provide like that will do it.

Lawyers are people too (I know right....I never would have thought that)
But my ex wife got to a point that she couldn't get a lawyer to harass me anymore after the divorce....they would quote her outrageous prices and fees that she couldn't afford. (Much more than standard rates)
That after charging an initial consulting fee just for her to tell them about the case.

I kept the same lawyer the whole time that had a good reputation and was competent. He also was affordable.

Marriage may be temporary but ex-wives last forever.

 

[fncceo]

The problem is, most people get married too young.

No one should even think about marriage until they are at least 70 years old.

 

[tyroneweaver]

Anyone here who has been divorced feel free to share your experiences.
It goes beyond marraige, how will I be able to trust a woman again with my heart? Share a home or even a bed together? Being alone isn't natural, we are social beings, we want to love and be loved, we want a peaceful existence, a calm discussion among nature. Once you experience a certain trauma it is impossible to believe it could not happen again even as you feel.the need to be human again.

Ive been married 52 years, so I wouldn't know

 

[merrill]

Always live with someone for awhile before marrying = one learns so much.

Or simply never marry because marriage is not for everyone.

Or hang with 3 different people maybe not at one time .....

Never forget we humans are capable of loving more than one
person which is life saving. We may never forget our first love however that should not be a barrier to falling in love again.

 

[fncceo]

Or simply never marry because marriage is not for everyone.

Agreed!