The moment you start to discuss meaning and purpose with how it pertains to your family, you will be singing a different tune. You'll be telling me about how all the positive things in your life help you get through all of the negative things in your life.
So, I hate to burst your bubble but there really are good and bad outcomes just like there are better or worse outcomes. The trick in life is to manage the negative without letting it consume you and to learn from it so future outcomes will be positive.
But to your point that there are no absolutes, so you can't say raping a woman or owning another human is absolutely wrong? Apparently the only thing that isn't absolute is your statement there are no absolutes.