If they want to allow Ukrainians to decide by themselves - they should open borders, and you shouldn't pay them, to make their decisions truly independent. You didn't "support Ukrainians". You just hired some crooks and Neo-Nazi militants to suppress local opposition and force them to kill Russians. Corrupted Ukrainian, American and European politicians got their billions. Corrupted Ukrainian head-hunters and servants of regime got their millions. Ordinary Ukrainians are dying in the unwinnable war, and ordinary western people are losing their money.
And we all know, how you'll name it. The Fourth Reich.
We may not agree on everything with Americans. Actually, there are a lot of things we disagree. But, at least, they are pragmatical. They are not suicidal mass-murders as Europeans. United and unleashed Europe means a big war. Really big. In in this war you'll be defeated, and, may be, even eliminated.