I see. god created us with flaws, tells us that none of us are without sin, and then blames us for sinning.
Every night, my kids and I say prayers at their bedtime. I have raised them to say thanks to God each day for at least two things for which they are grateful. I have raised them not to ask for anything from God, because God knows their needs. Asking for something from God is placing an expectation on God, and that inevitably will lead to disappointment.
I think this is what is at the core of most atheists' resentments. They have expectations of God, and are angry he does not meet their demands.
One night, while the kids were getting ready for bed when they were very small, they started playing around and began swinging on a curtain over our back door. Of course the curtain rod eventually bent and the curtain fell to the floor.
At that exact moment, I arrived at the top of the stairs and looked down and saw this ridiculous scene. I impulsively shouted at my children, "What the hell is wrong with you people?!"
Do you think they felt like kneeling down and saying prayers with me after that?
Nope. No they didn't.
Until...
Until I remembered that I knew any children I might have would not be perfect. I knew before they were born they were going to make mistakes.
I had them anyway.
And you know what? No matter how angry they might make me sometimes, no matter what mistakes they might make,
it does not change the love I feel for them one bit.
So here's the crucial thing you must understand. Their destruction of the curtain had created a gulf between me and them.
But as they are the children and I am their father, it was up to me to close that gulf between us with my love and forgiveness.
Understand?
That's what Jesus' sacrifice represents. God is reaching across the gulf of our sins and bringing us back to him. All we have to do is accept that. He knew before He created us we would be imperfect, and it does not change the way He feels about us one bit.
Simple.
So I asked my kids, "Okay, you didn't know that would happen, but now you have learned a little something about the laws of physics. So you won't ever do that again, right?"
Then we all happily knelt down and said our prayers.
I have not replaced that curtain rod. I straightened it as much as possible and put it back up. I will ask to be buried with it, because it is a holy relic to me as much as the Cross.
I had a boss like that once.
There's a better Boss out there.