Sex is a meaningless mechanical exercise. That's why children need to learn proper techniques early AND, most important, learn how to separate the mechanical act of sex from any emotional component whatsoever. Including a total rejection of that emotional attachment to the babies resulting from sex.
I assume you are being a wise-ass to make a point. Look, this whole thing boils down to a basic concept. Santorum, you, KG, and the Turkey are of the opinion that sex is a special thing that should be shared only with a spouse and it's for the purpose of enhancing the emotional bond and procreation. I don't think anyone has a problem with your interpretation as it applies to your particular relationships. It's your relationship, run it however you want. The problem comes when the same acceptance is asked to be given to those who do not have such a traditional structure. Your position is not "It's your relationship, run it however you want.", but appears to be "It's your relationship, and you should run it how I say."
Certainly this is not lost on you.