This rep thing poses some interesting quandaries.
Whether you want to admit it or not you want to join the Big Rep-ers. It's obvious, they have hopefully earned the right and they are unencumbered. They can be devastatingly honest and cut right to the bone of issues.
When your a weeny rep-er and your too blunt you can be easily devastated by the Big Guns with neg. reps.. So, you learn fairly early to fudge your enthusiasm, which in my case, I find difficult.
I always show appreciation when I get a good rep.. but even that posses interesting dilemmas, to thankful, you sound like a stalker, especially with the ladies, to simple seems ignorant and ungrateful to me. If I get a neg. rep. I also leave them a message and try to get some sort of explanation, most of the time it's bad communication on my part, sometimes their just being assholes.
Then, to add to the confusion, you get unexpected good reps (which is nice) and uncalled for neg. reps (which really sucks).
So, you can call it whoring, trolling, sucking up, boot licking, brown nosing or farming (etc.) that's all hogwash, seems if you just write good ,interesting threads/posts and be patient, things should work out. At least, I hope so...