Question for ladies.

[elvis]

If you are in a committed relationship, is porn cheating? (assuming you don't look at it together)

 

[CrimsonWhite]

 

[WillowTree]

I don't know if it's cheating, but for me it would be a deal breaker.

 

[Toro]

How about if you no longer want to have sex with your husband, is porn cheating / a deal breaker?

 

[random3434]

Bahahahaahahahaahahahahaahahahaaha!


How funny you ask this question!


Back when I was married to my daughter's father we were poor as hell. I wanted to be a stay at home mom, he owned his own business, which wasn't doing all that well. So I got a job paying 9 bucks an hour, so I could earn some money and yet still have time with my girl.

So.........I would get home from work, and guess who had been watching porn on the satellite, at $5.99-9.99 a pop. Racking up bills in the hundreds of dollars every month. He would do this after I left for work in the morning, EVERY MORNING! So here we are, barely able to buy groceries, and he's paying for PORN PER VIEW!

So was he cheating ON me? No, but was he a big fat liar! Yes.


I'm sure most women don't mind their men watching porn at home, better than being with another women in the flesh!


PS-That was the icing on the cake for me leaving him. The lies, oh the lies!

 

[CrimsonWhite]

Bahahahaahahahaahahahahaahahahaaha!


How funny you ask this question!


Back when I was married to my daughter's father we were poor as hell. I wanted to be a stay at home mom, he owned his own business, which wasn't doing all that well. So I got a job paying 9 bucks an hour, so I could earn some money and yet still have time with my girl.

So.........I would get home from work, and guess who had been watching porn on the satellite, at $5.99-9.99 a pop. Racking up bills in the hundreds of dollars every month. He would do this after I left for work in the morning, EVERY MORNING! So here we are, barely able to buy groceries, and he's paying for PORN PER VIEW!

So was he cheating ON me? No, but was he a big fat liar! Yes.


I'm sure most women don't mind their men watching porn at home, better than being with another women in the flesh!

With legs like yours, why would he need to watch porn?

 

[PoliticalChic]

If you are in a committed relationship, is porn cheating? (assuming you don't look at it together)

No, it's not cheating. If he is watching it occasionally, I think it's ok. If he's watching it all the time, I may consider it a problem. If he would prefer to watch porn instead of spending time with me -- that's a major problem.

 

[strollingbones]

i got no problem with a man watching porn...i dont care where a man works up his appetite as long as he's eating at home...men are more visual than women...once you accept that you understand why they prefer porn and women prefer bodice rippers...they are a from of soft core porn but women wont admit it....

he crushed her against him, she could feel his man hold blah blah blah no different just dressed up more

 

[strollingbones]

o hell my hubby cant remember to return his "hidden" porn...so the shop calls and ask for them...they are know for having a huge selection of hard to find films...the male clerk simply ask if i will have my husband call...i ask how many tapes are over due and how long are they over due...it was like 3 tape for 4 days...porn tapes add up....i find them in his "secret hiding" place and drive them back to the store, as i pull out my check book...the clerk says...i am sorry we dont accept personal checks...the owner walks by and goes...we always take hers......i didnt know if i should be embaressed or not....

 

[dilloduck]

i got no problem with a man watching porn...i dont care where a man works up his appetite as long as he's eating at home...men are more visual than women...once you accept that you understand why they prefer porn and women prefer bodice rippers...they are a from of soft core porn but women wont admit it....

he crushed her against him, she could feel his man hold blah blah blah no different just dressed up more

There is so much women won't admit about sex it ain't even funny ( except for Amanda of course )

 

[elvis]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

 

[random3434]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

Maybe she was living with my ex hubby, we haven't seen him in 11 years, so it could be!

 

[Cecilie1200]

If you are in a committed relationship, is porn cheating? (assuming you don't look at it together)

No, although I would be concerned if his viewing of it began to interfere with his ability to maintain a real-life sexual relationship.

 

[Cecilie1200]

i got no problem with a man watching porn...i dont care where a man works up his appetite as long as he's eating at home...men are more visual than women...once you accept that you understand why they prefer porn and women prefer bodice rippers...they are a from of soft core porn but women wont admit it....

he crushed her against him, she could feel his man hold blah blah blah no different just dressed up more

There is so much women won't admit about sex it ain't even funny ( except for Amanda of course )

What won't we admit about sex?

 

[Cecilie1200]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

See, I'm with her. Actual sex with an actual person doesn't bother me, but the inability to trust someone is absolutely a deal-breaker.

 

[xotoxi]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

Maybe she was living with my ex hubby, we haven't seen him in 11 years, so it could be!

Wouldn't that be a weird coincidence if elvis's wife was having an affair with your ex-husband!

 

[elvis]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

Maybe she was living with my ex hubby, we haven't seen him in 11 years, so it could be!

Wouldn't that be a weird coincidence if elvis's wife was having an affair with your ex-husband!

Read the original post again.
It was a FRIEND of Mrs. Elvis.

 

[Yurt]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

what is a relationship without truth?

 

[elvis]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

what is a relationship without truth?

Why do men feel they have to lie about this subject?

 

[Cecilie1200]

Here is what made me ask this question.
My wife's friend broke up with the guy she was living with because he ordered porn on her cable (it's her house) and lied about it when she confronted him. She confided to my wife that she didn't have a problem with the porn, that she would have watched it with him, but the lying and deceit was the deal breaker.

what is a relationship without truth?

Why do men feel they have to lie about this subject?

Maybe because so many women throw hissy fits about it that they're afraid to own up. Which doesn't excuse being dishonest in the slightest, in my opinion.