Now that is rich. I point out the contradictions and atrosities that prevent me from sharing your faith, and you accuse me of cherrypicking. You really don't see the absurdity in that? The difference is I point out why it can't all possibly be true. You ignore the parts you don't like and tell yourself it's all true.
It is not an accusation, merely an observation. I am noting you have been insistent that Christians only pick what they want. I just asked isn't that why you left the faith--by focusing on certain passages and deciding they held more importance than others?
By the way, I didn't ignore the parts I "don't like". As I have told you twice before, the parts puzzled me I spent decades of study and research to see how they properly fit into the tapestry that makes up the entire Bible.
When what is not liked is thrown out, whether those are the accounts that causes a loss of faith, or whether those are the parts that hold people fast their faith, it is like tossing out pieces of a puzzle because of not liking the color or the shape. When choosing to put a puzzle together doing this, the puzzle is going to be incomplete. The same is true of the Bible.
Bulldog, just because you spent a large portion of your life either ignoring or not knowing about the parts that came into clear focus for you later, doesn't mean the same was true for others. They have always been clear to--if not most of us--then at least many of us, and we see them as a part of our story.
It seems to me, if you decided if you were going to have faith or believe in God, then certain parts of the Bible should never have occurred. Since they did, despite the rest of the Bible, no faith,
The Jews became a people who rejected child sacrifice because of a story where "God said" and Abraham did not. We see the same thing in the story of Joshua. Look closely, and it is apparent nor did Joshua do as "God said". In both cases, with study and research, we see that what "God said" were both what was the norm in society at the time. (Remember the mindset of the time if something happened--even the least thing--it was because God allowed it.) The Jews were learning that not going along with the norm was even more pleasing to God. (God in our midst.)
So, yes. I have noticed your insistence that Christians choose what they like and throw away the rest. Isn't that what you are doing? You keep hold of the parts (cherry-picking) that support dropping your faith--and then turned it around so that it was the rest of us who keep the faith are cherry-picking. Perhaps at least consider that those of us who keep the faith, simply delved deeper (and at an earlier age) into Biblical studies.