the pain of finding one of our loved one has reached the end of the line.....i hope you have a decent vet who will give you excellent advice....letting go is one of the hardest things in the world....hope can be cruel at times....especially when we know the end is near and we just want to push it back.....at this point....your feeling and your wives feeling do not matter.....how is katy doing? how is she handling this? I had a dog that seizures, it was so hard on him. Sometimes the thought of letting go is much worse than the act of letting go....and I have been where you are....I begged a vet to save my cat....I had just lost jake after a decade or more...and suddenly I was faced with the loss of another beloved pet....i stood and cried....begging for his life....i was lucky.....not all are....
sometimes you have to let go and then face that....i will never have another one.....then face the act of loving another one again.....it will take time...i wish katy the best....and i hope you have the strength to realize what is best for you ...may not be best for her.....good luck...
We discussed all the options including putting her down.
The vet said she was still healthy enough to live many more years if we can control the seizures.
Having put previous pets to sleep when they had no chance at a normal life I know when it's time and she's not there yet.
She was up this morning and other than still being a little worn out she's her old self.
Of course she has that uncanny ability to separate her pills from the ham it was rolled up in.
Personally I think she just wanted more ham because she eventually ate the pills as well.