You see, somehow I can't hear women that are too loud and bossy, who think that man's place is just to work and bring money for woman's needs. If you are someone's ex-wife, and your man left you with your two cats, it doesn't mean everyone is. But I completely understand why he did it.
You, who are all about money, are saying you're generous? And all you have to offer is yapping?
Men is not complaining about traditional roles. We know we have to support the family, we know our responsibilities. We don't sit whole day at home thinking what other demand we gonna some up with to be happy. You want man to provide the money for you, to clean for you, to watch kids for you, and after all you got bored and want to **** first guy who comes along, because you're angry that hubby forgot to wash the dishes too.
Every man I know that played that game end up cucked. That's why I don't play that game, we help each other, we are partners, we don't boss each other around, but we both have our roles to play. And if that means me mowing the lawn, and shoveling snow, smoking or grilling meat, and for her to make cookies, so be it. Only thing is, I don't need to be told what my job is, and neither is she. I never asked her to shovel the snow, but when she sees me doing it, she has fresh coffee waiting for me when I get back in. On the other hand, she doesn't need to be told to go get her hair done, or nails, or get herself new heals or a dress, she'll do it without telling, but she does it for me.
Where did you get that "whiny man-child" from? No wonder you're unhappy, and talking about exes. In order to get a real man, you need to start from yourself and be a real woman and learn the only rule that men has, you stop yapping when you were asked to stop.
Nobody is denying you "right to self-determination" (whatever that means) and to focus on yourself or your career. What you've being denied here is to ***** about man who refuse to settle for middle ages career rostie who fucked for fun every guy she met, and now she's panicking that her time is running out while she can find a good man to marry and have kids with.
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