You're comparing apples to oranges. First of all there's no such thing as unborn child, it is a fetus. Secondly, people who want to have a child can think of it as a child, but a woman who does not want a child will never think of it as a child. So, there is nothing immoral going on here. Except by the anti-abortion people who are pushing their agenda on everyone else..
You are going to have a hard time presenting the idea that grabbing an unborn child's foot with forceps in order to manipulate its body
so you can cram scissors in the back of its skull is the best way you can describe common human decency.
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