Well first off it's no "excuse". That's basically the way it is. Secondly..when you start with the "you have no brains" meme..it basically means that you are projecting.
It is an excuse and easily proved to be so. If it were true then there shouldn't be anyone who has come from nothing who has gained considerable wealth. We know that not to be the case. It is self serving excuse that feeds on itself. You can always fall back on 'well I wasn't born into money, that's why I don't have any'. It's a hell of a lot easier then taking a good hard look at yourself and determining the role that you've played in your outcomes.
Third..most of "asia" is just developing...and it really depends on where you are talking about. Salaries in Japan and Korea are pretty high. Same with Taiwan.
China? Not so much. But they are increasing. Same with India.
And it's not about being "broken hearted", it's about being smart. In an economy based on consumerism..it makes no sense whatsoever to concentrate wealth into a few hands.
History also shows the folly of that.
For you liberals it most certainly is about being broken hearted. Policy based on emotion rather than objective reason is the defining characteristic of liberalism. Create policy that gives a warm fuzzy feeling. Just give people more money, just give them health care, just take away their guns. Let's not think a little harder about whether any of those things are really in a person's best interest. No it doesn't make sense for money to get concentrated onto a smaller and smaller minority, but why is it someone elses responsibility to fix that and not yours? Why is it your bosses responsibility to simply give you what you say you need and not your responsibility to attain the skills that achieve that?