I agree with you. The whole concept makes problems for everyone. On the one hand, I'm not the Penis Police. It's not my job to investigate what is - or was - under the skirts of people around me, and I treasure my ignorance on the subject for as long as they'll let me (which frequently isn't long, because they always have to tell people. Seems to me to defeat the whole purpose of the exercise). On the other hand, it requires an amazing level of naive tunnel vision to pretend that this entire public issue doesn't involve a gross violation of the rights of women in general and make them more vulnerable. And frankly, it amazes me that these wishful-thinker woman-wannabes don't see that if they were REALLY the women-inside that they think they are, they'd be more aware of and sensitive to that. REAL women, as a rule, don't look to put other women in danger just to satisfy their own personal goals. (Yes, I realize that in this self-absorbed day and age, that is becoming less true.)
There's not a lot a woman can do at this point other than hunker down and deal with occurrences in her own life on a case-by-case basis.