I am fully aware of sexual dynamics. And that means I know women like sex as much as men. I have been in situations where women decided to grab a handful to let me know her interest. On the job, in the classroom or at a party. I have had females on the job compliment certain body parts, my smile or my outfit. Men can't do that. A compliment suddenly turns into harassment or a hostile work environment.
Unless it is a man a woman wants that kind of attention from.
#metoo has opened up another necessary discussion that we need to have.
For example women generally do not wear medium or thigh high skirts unless they think they have nice legs. So what's wrong with a man complimenting a woman for that? What's so terrible about a man complimenting a woman about her beauty? I said beauty, not booty. Or tits. In the work place that is uncouth and out of bounds.
I have been the recipient of back and thigh rubs I did not ask for from women on the job. I didn't complain because there was no harm done. But certainly I can agree that men pulling out their dicks or forcing themselves on a woman in any physical way is wrong.
But ladies, some of you need to change the way you think too. The I can have any man I want when I want mentality has got to go.
I wasn't around when the worlds oldest profession began, but I don't think a man started selling sex. I could be wrong, but both men and women need to start thinking, because for at least 90 percent of us, it's natural to be attracted to the opposite sex.
Welcome to the party. 2 years late. But better late than never. Funny how the left is suddenly not on board with believe all women. I do think the Biden accusers story is suspect, and the timing is extremely convenient for Bernie. But I digress.
I have also had similar uncomfortable moments with women coming on to me in a very aggressive way. Most notably one instance in my Applebeeās server days when I was 18. Had a women 10 or so years my senior ask me to come to the freezer in the back to help her, she shut the door and bit my lip. I kind of just stood there and took and awkwardly laughed and walked out. Another instance in high school where 2 girls bought white t-shirts and wrote all over them with marker that I am hot, sexy, etc. Iāve never heard of such a thing to this day, but it happened, and I was super uncomfortable with it. Donāt get me wrong, super flattered, but it made for an extremely awkward rest of the day. These were girls I had no interest in either. I have never been an attention seeker, so to have to walk by them, and have to deal with all the other students talking about it and making comments to me, it was not a fun day. But much like IM2, took the compliment and moved on.
Hereās the difference between something like this happening to a guy and it happening to women. Men are naturally stronger and on average more aggressive. Men donāt ever have the thought of āis this aggressive lady going to take her aggression one step further and overpower and rape me.ā Nope, never gonna happen for men. For women, itās unlikely, but itās still a lingering possibility. As to wether or not women like sex as much as men, I cannot speak too. No one can. One thing is for sure though is that women take on extremely far more risks than men do in the act of sex. The fact that theyāre more likely to catch STDs aside, sex is not inconsequential for women. Evolutionarily speaking, women have to worry about becoming increasingly more vulnerable over a 9th month period, then have to go through an extremely painful and potentially deadly childbirth, then are emotionally attached and responsible for an extremely helpless little human whose only method of communication is basically screaming āEAT MEā to any predators in the area. So yes, women rightfully are more wary of sex than men are. There was that famous study where an they took an attractive man and an attractive women to ask strangers on campus if they would like to have sex that night. All women said no, and like 90% of men said yes. Thereās 70,000 years of evolution telling women to make sure this guy is going to stay around and share itās resources with you and your baby before you have sex with it.