Last year, I was 240 lbs and was working out at the gym 5 days a week and dieting (quite unsuccessfully).
After a few months, I decided to make some changes.
1 i stopped drinking my calories. That means spring water and coffee in the morning, no cream or sugar.
2 I quit working out so much. I decided to concentrate on losing first and then start working out when I had more energy.
3 I cut my overall intake of food.
4 I started eating shortly after I woke up.
5 I don't keep food in my house so I wont eat late-night snacks.
Now, after a month and a half - I'm 218!
I have a lot more energy now from not eating sugar so I decided to every day, start cleaning my cab for exercise! I know it sounds weird, but I no longer take my cab through the $12.00 car wash and instead, I wipe it off, manually. The results for the cab are spectacular - I have the cleanest cab in the city (not that hard to do).
Sill losing weight and my goal for now, is to start working out more once I reach 195.
I'm hopping to be there by June.
I will adjust my goal of 178 lbs as I slim down further; I don't want to lose any muscle mass, so I make sure that I get enough protein.
As far as my fat intake, I am shooting for a healthy balance of good fats, like Omega 3, and a proper mix of saturated fats with no trans fats.
Every day I eat a couple pieces of fruit and veggies when I have time. I keep nuts and raisins for snacks and every week, I break down and have pizza on Friday night. This plan seems to be working very well.
I'll update in a few days or whenever I lose more.
Edit: I forgot to share what made me decide to want to be thin again.
When I was young, I liked the fact that I was thin, but very strong. It used to surprise people when I weighed 160 lbs, but I could out bench them.
Most specifically, though, I miss being able to "squeeze" through tight spaces.
I hesitate to comment as this may be a setup to some elaborate joke but I think you're doing everything right.
Sugar and breads are the most fattening foods, as well as any food with gluten. Sugar is addicting. Smart to give up the gym too, as new muscle adds weight and is discouraging to those trying to lose it. It is recommended to put off the fitness club until after the desired weight loss is achieved, according to the most reputable sites on the subject I have read. 