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Does that count as being a sin? I have done this before myself so I was just curious.
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I used to lie all the time, but my mother, God rest her soul, would know i was lying, so not only would i be punished for doing something stupid, but also the lie. After a while of growing up, i realized it was better to tell the truth, because i would only be punished for the stupid stuff, and not for telling the truth. I have been asked "Does this dress, make me look fat", in which i replied, no the dress isnt the problem, what is in the dress is....I got a shoe thrown at me for that.Does that count as being a sin? I have done this before myself so I was just curious.
I used to lie all the time, but my mother, God rest her soul, would know i was lying, so not only would i be punished for doing something stupid, but also the lie. After a while of growing up, i realized it was better to tell the truth, because i would only be punished for the stupid stuff, and not for telling the truth. I have been asked "Does this dress, make me look fat", in which i replied, no the dress isnt the problem, what is in the dress is....I got a shoe thrown at me for that.
Not qualified to judge a sin, but I do compare lying to save someones' feelings to the option of telling the truth, not matter how much it hurts someone and come down on the side of sparing feelings.Does that count as being a sin? I have done this before myself so I was just curious.
Not qualified to judge a sin, but I do compare lying to save someones' feelings to the option of telling the truth, not matter how much it hurts someone and come down on the side of sparing feelings.
I prefer the term "polite fiction" to "lying."
Go back to the definition of 'missing the target' as sin. Think back to this time. Now, how might you present the truth in a helpful manner?Does that count as being a sin? I have done this before myself so I was just curious.
Go back to the definition of 'missing the target' as sin. Think back to this time. Now, how might you present the truth in a helpful manner?
My favorite example is when my sister-in-law asked my brother-in-law about a dress with padded shoulders she was wearing. He didn't want to hurt her feelings and he didn't want to lie. He said, "You look more petite without shoulder pads." My sister-in-law left the room, came back a few minutes later, smiling and without pads.
So, an "I like it better when you..." has been an approach I have adopted.
Very much.So in other words you think that it's different if the intent isn't to hurt somebody with the lie?
Very much.
There are many levels of wrongness in the act of making an untruthful statement.
Telling your boss that you need $50K to reimburse yourself for a 20K payment is very wrong. Telling grandma that you really enjoyed her Christmas fruitcake, is the right thing to do, rather than hurt her feelings by truthfully telling that you use it for a door stop in the tool shed.
Telling him that you are looking for something else, or that the chemistry mixture between the two of you was a bit off wouldn't work?Yeah well I don't think that I would have had something like that to help me when it came to the man I didn't actually want to be with but I just didn't know how to tell him that.
Telling him that you are looking for something else, or that the chemistry mixture between the two of you was a bit off wouldn't work?
So this guy walks up to you and asks "Do you think i am a beautiful girl"? Do you lie to make them feel good or tell them the truth?Not qualified to judge a sin, but I do compare lying to save someones' feelings to the option of telling the truth, not matter how much it hurts someone and come down on the side of sparing feelings.
I prefer the term "polite fiction" to "lying."
I love fruitcake, the food, not the guys on the left.Very much.
There are many levels of wrongness in the act of making an untruthful statement.
Telling your boss that you need $50K to reimburse yourself for a 20K payment is very wrong. Telling grandma that you really enjoyed her Christmas fruitcake, is the right thing to do, rather than hurt her feelings by truthfully telling that you use it for a door stop in the tool shed.
I do wonder if lying to spare someone's feelings does more harm than good. A hard truth may incentivize them to improve themselves. A pleasant lie never will.
So this guy walks up to you and asks "Do you think i am a beautiful girl"? Do you lie to make them feel good or tell them the truth?
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LoL!So this guy walks up to you and asks "Do you think i am a beautiful girl"? Do you lie to make them feel good or tell them the truth?
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That's the burden women bear. At least they used to before so-called "men" became such sorry-asses.Yeah well I don't think that I would have had something like that to help me when it came to the man I didn't actually want to be with but I just didn't know how to tell him that.