No. I treat them differently because they are individual people. One might be an asshole, one may be too fucking chipper.
Which has nothing to do with how they should be treated professionally.
What you want is to treat one race better than the others.
No, I want to treat every race the same. The problem is, whites have all sorts of privilege in how they are treated by law enforcement, employers, business owners, etc. And as I said, a lot of it was subtle. I'm sure if my boss had it explained to him how racist his lunch preferences were, he'd have been horrified. (This man once said, "perception is reality" in a meeting about an unrelated matter.).
I don't want to say this was even a bad boss. (In fact, a lot of stuff he did at the beginning of his role was laudible. By 2012, he just stopped giving a shit.)
I'll give you another example. I went into a convieince store, and saw a sign that read, "No Hats allowed in Store", so I immediately took off my hat. (I normally wear a fedora, it's kind of personal style thing. Also, I'm bald.) The owner said, "No, that doesn't apply to you!"
You’re insisting I treat every black person like I would my best friend and that’s not going to happen. Ever.
No one said you should. You should treat them with respect, you should give them the same professional courtesy that you'd give a white person.