SUMMARY ARGUMENT:
RKM's post #310 addressed to Foxfyre
He said: Yes you are one of "those" people who only create threads to "educate" people on why they are stupid. Everyone but you is a dumb ass because they don't use your definitions of terms to turn up into down, left into right, liberty into authority....
RKM's post #321 addressed to Gracie
He said: I see so I'm stupid and insecure. Got it. And Fox is brilliant, always right, never stubborn. Matter of fact she walks on water half the time.
RKM's post #322 addressed to Foxfyre
He said: I think the point is that when a thread is really just a pat myself on the back thread for being the only person in the room that knows anything about anything.. well then it's not really a debate thread. If all you want to do is get a pat on the back from people who think like you do then maybe we should call those threads "pat me on the on the back threads" vs debate threads.
RKM's post #324 addressed to Foxfyre:
I said: How many do people start who don't defend their own point of view?
He said: Nothing wrong with defending your pov. Attacking another person's pov, when said pov has basis, is valid, supported, and reasonable ... merely because you don't like it or because you it is wrong simply because you say so... that sort of disagreement is not debating. It's emotional reasoning. Maybe one "issue" is the fundamental difference between how women and men think and resolve problems.
I said: I don't know what I've done to you to generate such understanding and charitable feelings, but oh well.
He said: Pretty simple... I posted some facts in disagreement with some of your opinions... IMO you got all upset when confronted with basic facts, such as actual definitions of terms, or reasonable views on topics of import for said debates. IOW I got the opinion that you did not want to debate the facts based on reason but rather wanted to defend your emotionally charged opinions.
RKM's Post 326 addressed to Foxfyre
He said: lol... Like I said. You are one of those folks who insist on defining up as meaning down.... left as meaning right... liberty as meaning authority... then you claim the topic of this thread is why __ won't work because ... well because your definition won't allow it to work .. then you claim that the people debating you are trying to derail your topic.... Nearly every single one of your threads is about you claiming to have the authority to harm others. Then if I argue why you are wrong, you ask why are you trying to derail my thread. You are using the rules to shut down differing opinions, you are not using the rules to further debate. Well maybe not every time, but certainly that was the case in each case when I was arguing with you. You don't want to even contemplate my argument you just want to shut it down by any means possible. Such as... I guess I'll just leave if everyone hates me....
RKM's post #339 addressed to Foxfyre:
(In response to my Post #327 in which I said: But you'll have to show me an example of where I am guilty of what you are accusing me. Most especially any incident in which I have claimed authority to hurt others.
He said: I'm not being mean. I'm just pointing out that you are correct when you yourself state that you are stubborn. You are not one to give others the time of day when it comes to actually listening to their arguments. Your debate style is fingers in your ears. No offense but it's true.
I almost never agree with the Derideo_Te, but in this case the main point of the OP is valid. Structured debates that are ruled by someone that only intends to insult others and/or to exclude any and all structured debate have in fact occurred. And this seems very ironic.
There are many forms of "harm." For example, taxing upper middle class at a higher tax rate is a harm on the upper middle class. As another example, having a voting system where the voter only gets to pick one of the people running and not say who he likes better then second best then third best is another type of harm. As another example, miss-stating what someone has said or done is another harm. As a further example, defending a law that harms people, such as prohibiting gays from being allowed to marry is a harm on those people every bit as harmful as if you had slapped them in the face yourself when they asked to be treated as equals. As still a further example, telling someone that they are derailing a thread because they disagree with the definitions of the terms that formed the basis of the thread is another type of harm. Sure some of these harms are minor jabs. Some are not minor.
Using the power of popular opinion and/or shame and/or emotional pleas for ignorance in the face of clear facts is the same as putting your fingers in your ears and "attempting" to censure argument. Which is fine, if that's the point of the discussion. But not fine if the point of the discussion was reasoned debate.
RKM's post #386 addressed to Foxfyre:
As for the "shutting somebody down" those statements are in regard to the forum in which we are currently discussing. This forum is not over a year old. The discussion of harm wrt. taxing others to harm them vs. being harmed yourself is a link to a very old discussion. The first one in which you and I bumped heads. Do you now deny being against sales taxes vs. progressive taxes that harm the upper middle class? Do you really need me to search for the post in which you claimed to be for progressive taxes over flat/sales tax type systems? Do you understand the use of the term harm in this context?
NOTE: The post has now been linked to show that I did not say that. And he still won't admit it.
CONCLUSION: I have repeatedly asked RKM for a single specific example in context where I have done what he accused me, most especially in shutting down those who disagree with me or advocating hurting people and more recently that I promote progressive taxes . So far he has pointed to huge blocks of texts and threads and one post that that actually shows I did not say what he accused me, but has yet to point to any other specific post or statement that will support any of his accusations. He has failed to make his argument and he should be indicted for false witness.
I rest my case. Let the arbitration begin.