Which has nothing to do with choice, except that of the parents.
Neither is being gay or straight. The choice is
acting upon their desires like 13 years having sex, but there is no choice in their
desires to have sex.
So if, say, my religion (just say), taught that being straight is wrong (our "prophet" tells us that), and that being gay is the only correct way, YOU'D refrain from having (straight) sex? Keep in mind that the invisible man ("god") saying that gay sex is wrong is so savage, so barbaric, that he tortured, brutally, an innocent man just to make a point to another invisible man (the devil)....I'm talking about his brutal torture of Job, in the Bible. So we can't take his morality, his teachings, his ethical stand, seriously. I think that most pet chimps are more ethical than said invisible friend is - do chimps ruthlessly torture, savagely, their own "children" just to make a point? No, they don't - so chimps are more ethical than the Christian god is.