If women want to stop being treated like second-class citizens, they need to stop acting ...

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...like second-class citizens.

I have recently joined a law firm as an attorney, and I got my own office, which is an expectation that an attorney gets his own office. No big deal.

I worked there two weeks before I realized we had another attorney in the office, a woman I will call "K."

The reason I did not realize she was an attorney is because no one treated her like an attorney, she did not act like an attorney, and apparently, she does no real attorney work, except maybe some immigration.

She shares an office with a paralegal, and if I was to guess, I'd say the firm is paying her maybe half what it is paying me.

So what's my point?

With all this hullabaloo about Weinstein, I've isolated the problem. The reason women get treated this way, the reason they get shoved to the back, the reason they get ignored, the reason they get less pay, is because the vast majority of women don't stick up for themselves.

This is not only true in the workplace, but in the churches, and in their relationships with men.

Let me talk about the churches, in particular, my church, the Catholic Church.

Everyone knows that the Catholic Church only allows men to be priests. And because only men are priests, only men are bishops, only men are cardinals, and only men are Popes. So men dominate the Catholic Church, and women have no say at all in how the Church is run.

Now, the nuns have been squaking about this for years, but what have they really done? They don't have the backing of the laywomen, who go to Mass every Sunday and allow this situation to continue.

What if the Catholic women all got together and said, we are not going to Mass anymore until women are allowed to be priests?

And in 2000 years, Catholic women have never thought to do this. They remain content to be second-class citizens in the Church they attend every Sunday.

And the situation in other religions is no better.

Now, let's talk about how women act in their relationships with men.

Have you ever noticed that a couple usually tend to agree on almost everything? They agree on politics, they agree on religion, they agree on how things should be done, and what kind of life they should lead.

This is not because men and women are so lucky as to meet people who agree with each other on everything. It is because women adapt their thinking to be in line with their men.

I will give as an example my own daughter, who I raised to be Catholic. But when she met a Jewish atheist in an online game and started having a relationship with him, she started down the road of becoming an atheist herself. When she was having a relationship with a libertarian, she also became a libertarian. Now that she's in a relationship with a liberal Democrat, she is a liberal Democrat.

My sister is the same way. She had a relationship with a Vegan, so she became a Vegan. When she broke up with her Vegan boyfriend, she went back to eating meat.

My own ex-wife is the same way. She agrees with me on absolutely everything. This makes her very easy to get along with, but I've only just now realized that this agreement with me is her way of getting along with me. Now that she's with another man, she will probably start agreeing with him more and more, and with me less and less.

The whole thing with Weinstein is part of a much bigger problem in Hollywood. Women do what it takes to get ahead in their careers, and that includes tolerating all sorts of bad behavior in men. And this should stop. Women should stop tolerating bad behavior, and they should stop keeping secrets about men who hurt them, and they should work together to bring bad men to justice.

And the feminists have been no help at all. When all the scandals came out about Clinton, feminists chose to back him up rather than back up the women who were hurt by Clinton. This betrayal of all women means the feminist movement is not an authentic voice for women. All they care about nowadays is abortion and lesbianism. They do not concern themselves with the problems of normal women.

And what has the feminist movement done about Hollywood, which has been abusing and mistreating women for at least 100 years. Nothing, nothing at all. Weinstein bought off the feminists with contributions to Democrat politicians and Planned Parenthood, so they left him alone to do his damage to hundreds of women.

So who speaks for women? Apparently, no one. Women do not speak out for themselves, and they do not speak out for each other, and they tolerate all sorts of crap from men because they apparently lack the courage or willpower to do anything about it. And the vast majority do not even think for themselves, they let their husbands/boyfriends do their thinking for them.

It is a problem so big that I don't think it will ever be solved.
 
If you're so good at it, represent her and petition the law firm you work for on her behalf and other women in the same situation...
 
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Sounds like she’s working in the wrong office. She deserves a workspace all her own...
 
The myth of equality is destroying western civilization and ruining lives. Feminism is like a cancer and it's negative effect on society is enormous. The plague of broken families and single motherhood is the main cause of poverty and the high crime rate in the US.
 
I'm the brighter side less women are getting married and having kids...choosing to focus on their careers. Same goes for younger working males. A positive trend?
 
This is just another way for the OP to whine about the fact that he can’t get a woman to want to be with him.

Dude’s got issues.
 
I don't usually feel as if I'm treated like a "second class citizen". Normally, I get the respect and admiration that I deserve, but there are always going to be a FEW douchebags who can't compete with the intelligence and toughness of women around. :itsok:
 
This is so ridiculous, it is like a parody or something. What century do you peeps live in anyways? :eusa_hand:
The innate biology of mankind is timeless...

Yes, and biologically, women are human beings, not your maids. We have hopes, dreams, aspirations and goals, like any other humans. Time to awaken from your coma.
 
This is just another way for the OP to whine about the fact that he can’t get a woman to want to be with him.

Dude’s got issues.

Rarely (if ever) do I agree with you, but in this case you hit the nail on the head, I think. :lol:


That's what bitches always say when a man criticizes their supposedly empowered asses LOL
 
This is just another way for the OP to whine about the fact that he can’t get a woman to want to be with him.

Dude’s got issues.

Rarely (if ever) do I agree with you, but in this case you hit the nail on the head, I think. :lol:


That's what bitches always say when a man criticizes their supposedly empowered asses LOL

Well, I probably make more money than you can. :D Lol. I am waaaaay up here. You are down there somewhere in my dust.
 
Okay so I kinda stopped halfway through, and, the first thing that popped into my head was the women that stand up for themselves in the workplace and are aggressive are viewed as "bitches".

I grew up in the DC area, and most female bosses I had were not "wimpy", the were either bitches or just competent confident women, but I admit, most WERE bitches and very unpleasant to work with
 
This is just another way for the OP to whine about the fact that he can’t get a woman to want to be with him.

Dude’s got issues.

Rarely (if ever) do I agree with you, but in this case you hit the nail on the head, I think. :lol:


That's what bitches always say when a man criticizes their supposedly empowered asses LOL

Well, I probably make more money than you can. :D Lol. I am waaaaay up here. You are down there somewhere in my dust.

maybe so, maybe so...but how much money does it really cost to care for a house full of cats
 
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Okay so I kinda stopped halfway through, and, the first thing that popped into my head was the women that stand up for themselves in the workplace and are aggressive are viewed as "bitches".

I grew up in the DC area, and most female bosses I had were not "wimpy", the were either bitches or just competent confident women, but I admit, most WERE bitches and very unpleasant to work with

Okay. I can agree with that to an extent. In workplace situations, I've found men supervisors to be more calm and laid back, but maybe that has something to do with the "attitude" like men in the OP? Women are moodier and bitchier than men, generally speaking, but that doesn't mean we ALL are that way, especially in the workplace. People of either gender can be assholes I suppose.
 
This is just another way for the OP to whine about the fact that he can’t get a woman to want to be with him.

Dude’s got issues.

Rarely (if ever) do I agree with you, but in this case you hit the nail on the head, I think. :lol:


That's what bitches always say when a man criticizes their supposedly empowered asses LOL

Well, I probably make more money than you can. :D Lol. I am waaaaay up here. You are down there somewhere in my dust.

maybe so, maybe so...but how much money does it really cost to care for a house full of cats

Oh, I have a boyfriend. He is a real man and is secure enough to not be intimidated by a woman with a job. :lol: Sorry that some of you are (or have) such little weenies. :D
 
This is just another way for the OP to whine about the fact that he can’t get a woman to want to be with him.

Dude’s got issues.

Rarely (if ever) do I agree with you, but in this case you hit the nail on the head, I think. :lol:


That's what bitches always say when a man criticizes their supposedly empowered asses LOL

Well, I probably make more money than you can. :D Lol. I am waaaaay up here. You are down there somewhere in my dust.

maybe so, maybe so...but how much money does it really cost to care for a house full of cats

Oh, I have a boyfriend. He is a real man and is secure enough to not be intimidated by a woman with a job. :lol: Sorry that some of you are (or have) such little weenies. :D

a woman's job is in the kitchen, somewhere deep down your boyfriend knows this which is why he's not your husband
 
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