A card would be nice.
A box of chocolates.
Perhaps, they should buy me dinner at a nice restaurant.
Most people, when they want something from me, go to some effort to be nice and use persuasion to convince me that their problems are worth my time to try to solve.
Unfortunately, that's not what black people chose to do.
Instead, blacks decided to get my attention with random murders, burnings, and lootings. And then they said, "Help us with our problems."
I find it difficult to be persuaded to help people who haven't learned the basics of how to win friends and influence people.