You're right. Drop them off and get a job, because the husband is so underpaid, we can't afford food, rent and diapers. But the current wait period to get into daycare at Naval Base Norfolk - for example is 8-11 months.
Most civilian families are dual income to help them make ends meet.
And I'm sure spouses don't work together
at all to deal with those problems.
When I was on shore duty in Norfolk, at the Naval Base, I worked with Navy Housing alot with domestic issues at the Family Services Center. Many, and I mean MANY of our junior enlisted's living in housing on base (or in town) were on welfare to help supplement their income. Many of them had 2 or more children, car payments, daycare expenses, etc. Kids will be kids. Unfortunately, pay at their level E3, 4, 5, isn't enough to sustain that kind of lifestyle, which is full of bad decisions.
But that's not the issue.
The issue is our military is GROSSLY underpaid for the job they are asked to do.
Not only is this bumbling idiot Obama going to cut benefits for veterans, he hasn't even given our active duty men and women one DIME in a pay raise since he slid into office.
He's shitting all over them - and asking them to do more with less.