The black guy on the panel did not have to be threating with violence, it just prove the guys point
Absolutely. That fellow's attitude accounts for exactly why many Whites dislike Blacks.
How would you have reacted?
Well, the black guy said the poly guy was riding in the same car with him and all this was news to him that the poly guy didn't like blacks. There was his clue right there. The guy had no problem with a black guy treating him like a human being sharing a vehicle. The guy DOES have a problem with blacks who he seems to have had negative encounters with. So instead of exploring that...the black guy got a 'tude.
I'm gonna use Tank as an example. For a long time..and probably still...folks think he is racist against blacks. No. He is not! He said, on this very board, he would LOVE to hang out with and have a beer with High Gravity. Well, HG is black. So if Tank was a KKK type racist...he wouldn't dream of having a beer, watching a football game, etc with a black "inferior" guy, now would he? Tank has experienced the same thing the Poly guy has. So they are wary. Using the word "do not like black people" was a poor choice of words, yes. But he has his reasons. And the black guy on the panel was a perfect eye opener of WHY some people are wary.
Myself, I grew up around blacks, hung out with blacks, had black roomies, dated blacks back in the 70's, had girlfriends that were black. We were all hippies. We loved everyone and didn't see color. But when I got older, the younger generation of blacks have this attitude they seem to be permeated with and the "blame ******" thing is getting old and tiresome. So do I "dislike" blacks now? Far from it. But I do dislike some of the behavior of younger blacks...and older blacks who have the same attitude that guy on the panel exhibited. He was blinded by what the poly guy said and didn't THINK about all the other things leading up to that..like their ride in the car, possible convo going on between them, etc. He just jumped straight into ghetto and got threatening.
Now, in answer to your question, I would have told him exactly what I said here. My reaction to his threatening attitude and verbal threat of assault if not tied down, I would have probably got angry myself and then told him to shove my opinion up his ass and to go **** himself. But that's me.