1. Keep in mind that more people voted for Hillary than voted for Trump. This means more than half of the voting public is disappointed and nervous about the results of this election. The victors are in the minority.
2. Keep in mind that not everybody who voted opposite of you is a rude insulting partisan wingnut. The majority are good hard working people that want the best for themselves, their family, their community, and their country... and more people thought Hillary was the better choice.
So how should you act?
Act in a manner that you'd like your opponent to act if the results of the election were reversed. It's very simple.
The Golden Rule never fails.
The problem here, Sport, is that you don't have to worry about the right showing their asses and protesting, marching, chanting, blocking traffic and overturning cop cars. We accept defeat and soldier on.
YOUR side consists of whiny spoiled brats that throw temper tantrums when they don't get their way. So don't preach to the right.
When people are upset, the best way to upset them even further is to refuse to validate their feelings and to insult them for being upset. Guaranteed to not have the effect you want. Damned glad you're not in charge.
Problem is you can't read. I didn't insult anyone for being upset. You typically impose a template onto others to preach down to them. Which is kind of insulting in its' own right. What effect did I want? You seem to know me better than me. Maybe I should let you type for me.
I stated the truth and have no desire to sooth hurt feelings, never claimed it was my motivation, I'm not Dr. Phil. I call a spade a spade. If you want to insult people you can expect incoming. That's how it works in the grownup world.
I've debated liberals for 30 years and it's always the same. They hurl all the shit in the world at you for failing to agree fully then cry foul when it doesn't go down their way. Like toddlers.