How many knoiw an infant can make long term memory and be traumatized

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Infants only a few days old can record long term memories. “Infants do not think but they do process emotions and long term memories are stored as affective schemas” (Geansbauer, 2002). An infant separated from its first mother will record a memory of that event. Memories of this nature are called preverbal memory representations and they have a unique quality that must be understood by adoptive parents. “Infant memories are recalled in adulthood the same way they were recorded at the time they occurred. It is difficult possibly impossible for children to map newly acquired verbal skills on to existing preverbal memory representations” (Richardson, R., & Hayne, H. 2007). An older adoptee who recalls an emotional memory will experience it the same way it was felt as an infant. Adoptees can have troubling memories that they cannot identify in words. This means that they cannot understand what they are feeling and without a vocabulary they cannot even ask for help. This leads to a cognitive /emotional disconnection. “Children fail to translate their preverbal memories into language”(Simcock, Hayne, 2002).
From Robert Hafetz independent researcher

 

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They will have to learn to process preverbal memories without imposing on anyone else. One of the more humane concepts is the baby box.

Safe Haven Baby Boxes

www.shbb.org

No records, so unwanted surprises.

 

[Hafar1014]

They will have to learn to process preverbal memories without imposing on anyone else. One of the more humane concepts is the baby box.

Safe Haven Baby Boxes

www.shbb.org

No records, so unwanted surprises.

They cant learn without therapy and most therapists have no idea how to treat a preverbal trauma. Safe heaven laws have no effect on trauma. Premature maternal separation creates the trauma

 

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They cant learn without therapy and most therapists have no idea how to treat a preverbal trauma. Safe heaven laws have no effect on trauma. Premature maternal separation creates the trauma

Get OVER it. Plenty of people have trauma. You aren't promised a trauma free life. Safe haven baby boxes give women a chance to live without fear of exposure.

 

[Hafar1014]

Get OVER it. Plenty of people have trauma. You aren't promised a trauma free life. Safe haven baby boxes give women a chance to live without fear of exposure.

I see you have no idea about the problem. Many safe heaven babies have the others name included with the baby. Its also rare and mother who use this have mental illness. Trauma is mental illness and we do have the ability to resolve it. Preverbal trauma is different and few have any idea how to heal it. I do and I published the intervention and offered it free to the worlds. IM read world wide. What kind of mother abandons her baby? Traumatizes it harms it for her benefit. Sick isnt it

 

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I see you have no idea about the problem. Many safe heaven babies have the others name included with the baby. Its also rare and mother who use this have mental illness. Trauma is mental illness and we do have the ability to resolve it. Preverbal trauma is different and few have any idea how to heal it. I do and I published the intervention and offered it free to the worlds. IM read world wide. What kind of mother abandons her baby? Traumatizes it harms it for her benefit. Sick isnt it

Desperate women who don't want to kill abandon their babies. All you care about is your own pain at being "abandoned". No one else counts. Women will never suffer enough to satisfy you.

The really worst part is how necessary you make abortion. You make it the only alternative. You talk about sick! How sick is it to do this?

 

[Hafar1014]

Desperate women who don't want to kill abandon their babies. All you care about is your own pain at being "abandoned". No one else counts. Women will never suffer enough to satisfy you.

The really worst part is how necessary you make abortion. You make it the only alternative. You talk about sick! How sick is it to do this?

Bringing mothers together with the babies they abandoned heals them both. Only the most morally disturbed selfish mothers want to hide their shame. I have mediated over 30 reunions and they are beautiful events that heal boy=th mother and child or adult. Sadly some mothers are so shamed and selfish they need to lie about harming their child. Thats literally abuse

 

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Bringing mothers together with the babies they abandoned heals them both. Only the most morally disturbed selfish mothers want to hide their shame. I have mediated over 30 reunions and they are beautiful events that heal boy=th mother and child or adult. Sadly some mothers are so shamed and selfish they need to lie about harming their child. Thats literally abuseng

And they should be punished, right? Make those selfish mothers suffer, right? They deserve it. Especially the nuns. It's only fitting that the lives they built be destroyed.

Have you ever examined why you are so driven to cruelty?

 

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And they should be punished, right? Make those selfish mothers suffer, right? They deserve it. Especially the nuns. It's only fitting that the lives they built be destroyed.

Have you ever examined why you are so driven to cruelty?

What kind of degenerate morally compromised self centered woman puts her baby in a box and leaves it at the police station or some other place. Thats child abuse. Your are punished by the choices you made
The UN treaty of the child is the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC), a legally binding international agreement that sets out the civil, political, economic, social, and cultural rights of all children under the age of 18. The treaty requires signatory countries to uphold these rights, ensuring children's basic needs are met, they are protected from harm, and they can develop to their full potential. It is the most widely supported human rights treaty in history and includes rights such as life, survival, development, protection from abuse, and the right to an education.

Key aspects of the UNCRC UN Treaty of the Child

• Civil and political rights: These include the right to a name and nationality, freedom of expression, freedom of thought, conscience, and religion, and protection from abuse and torture.

• Scope:
  It defines a child as any person under 18 years of age and applies to every child, regardless of their background, according to the UNICEF text.
  
  
• Government obligations:
  Countries that ratify the treaty are legally bound to protect and promote children's rights. This includes incorporating the convention into domestic law, implementing national plans, and ensuring children's rights are respected and upheld by all.
  
  • Life, survival, and development.
  • Be protected from violence, abuse, and neglect.
  • Receive an education.
  • Be raised by or have a relationship with their parents.
  • Express their opinions and be listened to.

 

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What kind of degenerate morally compromised self centered woman puts her baby in a box and leaves it at the police station or some other place. Thats child abuse. Your are punished by the choices you made
The UN treaty of the child is the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC), a legally binding international agreement that sets out the civil, political, economic, social, and cultural rights of all children under the age of 18. The treaty requires signatory countries to uphold these rights, ensuring children's basic needs are met, they are protected from harm, and they can develop to their full potential. It is the most widely supported human rights treaty in history and includes rights such as life, survival, development, protection from abuse, and the right to an education.

Key aspects of the UNCRC UN Treaty of the Child

• Civil and political rights: These include the right to a name and nationality, freedom of expression, freedom of thought, conscience, and religion, and protection from abuse and torture.
• Scope:
  It defines a child as any person under 18 years of age and applies to every child, regardless of their background, according to the UNICEF text.
  
  
• Government obligations:
  Countries that ratify the treaty are legally bound to protect and promote children's rights. This includes incorporating the convention into domestic law, implementing national plans, and ensuring children's rights are respected and upheld by all.
  • Life, survival, and development.
  • Be protected from violence, abuse, and neglect.
  • Receive an education.
  • Be raised by or have a relationship with their parents.
  • Express their opinions and be listened to.

All of which are respected by safe haven boxes instead of abortion.

All you want is to hurt women. That's your be and end all.

 

[Hafar1014]

All of which are respected by safe haven boxes instead of abortion.

All you want is to hurt women. That's your be and end all.

What kind pf mother abandons her baby traumatizes it then acts like they dont care?

 

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What kind pf mother abandons her baby traumatizes it then acts like they dont care?

A mother that would rather her baby live than be aborted.

You do know that adoption to promoted as an alternative to abortion. You take that away. Without safe havens women would live under threat forever. How do you overcome the secrecy of a firehouse box? You can't.

 

[Hafar1014]

A mother that would rather her baby live than be aborted.

You do know that adoption to promoted as an alternative to abortion. You take that away. Without safe havens women would live under threat forever. How do you overcome the secrecy of a firehouse box? You can't.

According to a Pew Research study mothers who choose to adopt never considered abortion. Further every state that opened birth records for adoption had less abortions. So youre wrong again. 94% of birth mothers want to be found another Pew Study.
Few women use safe havens. Only the self centered mentally ill use them. You have to wonder what kind of mother dumps here baby traumatizes it then tries to live as if it never happened. Thats not a mother at all. Thats child abuse and considering the trauma she inflicts on her baby its likely better off than living with her

 

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Worse. Families considering adoption should be persuaded against it. No matter how loving or supportive the hom for charlatans will try to get the child to reject that home and family. They will persuade that person that they will feel better about their lives if they confront and embarrass their birth mother in public. It's "healing" to cause another misery.

You get paid for this, don't you? Convince someone they have trauma from adoption and you alone can heal them. You sell snake oil.

 

[Hafar1014]

Worse. Families considering adoption should be persuaded against it. No matter how loving or supportive the hom for charlatans will try to get the child to reject that home and family. They will persuade that person that they will feel better about their lives if they confront and embarrass their birth mother in public. It's "healing" to cause another misery.

You get paid for this, don't you? Convince someone they have trauma from adoption and you alone can heal them. You sell snake oil.

Like I said assuming your honest which I doubt, People came to me. Professionals came to me for help. Of course I got paid that was my job. In therapy we dont convince people of anything.

So share why you feel the way you dtherwise this is none of your business.

I will. I was adopted and searched for my family. I have a graduate degree in psychology. 25 years working in 4 hospitals. 8 years in private practice. Im an independent researcher who has published. I offered my research to the world for free. Its read every day all over the world.
I mediated 12 reunions and helped adoptees search 23 times. Every one a success

 

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Most women have relied on, erroneously, the myth of sealed adoptions. As the fallacy of privacy becomes better known more women will use safe havens. As opposed to putting the child in the dumpster.

I have known people that were adopted. They weren't traumatized. They never thought about it. Of course they never met a charlatan who would counsel them into trauma so they could be fixed.

I cannot help but feel that with every woman you expose you are striking a blow against your own mother. It's not the trauma of others, it's your own. You will never hurt enough women to make up for the way your twisted mind has created your own pain.

 

[Hafar1014]

Most women have relied on, erroneously, the myth of sealed adoptions. As the fallacy of privacy becomes better known more women will use safe havens. As opposed to putting the child in the dumpster.

I have known people that were adopted. They weren't traumatized. They never thought about it. Of course they never met a charlatan who would counsel them into trauma so they could be fixed.

I cannot help but feel that with every woman you expose you are striking a blow against your own mother. It's not the trauma of others, it's your own. You will never hurt enough women to make up for the way your twisted mind has created your own pain.

So its clear you dont know anything you have feelings and youre not honest about them. You have some serious baggage dont you.

 

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So its clear you dont know anything you have feelings and youre not honest about them. You have some sejnrious baggage dont you.

I have a very long background of dealing with criminals including the criminally insane. Not baggage, more like building blocks. Many of them exhibit the same qualities you do. Damage in the name of improvement. Many of them kill or maim as their way of dealing with past trauma. You are much like Eliot Rodger who dealt with early romantic rejection that led him to kill six women. He killed himself because causing others pain will never make you feel good. No matter how many lives you ruin you will never get over the hurt you feel.