I am not trying to teach Jim anything. I don't believe he is teachable. I know you think otherwise. I wish you the best.
I am pointing out his hypocrisy.
As for not including forgiveness, it is not listed by Paul as one of the Fruits of the Spirit, which is the verse that I repeatedly point out that "Christians" like Jim reject. Not that forgiveness is not another trait that can be justified elsewhere in scripture as defining the true believer in Christ. It just wasn't part of Paul's list in Galatians.
As to the "quid pro quo" argument, I answered you in that thread. Sorry you missed it. The difficulty with your analogy is that it leaves out that if you don't let the doctor in then he will make sure you have an eternity of torment.
A small detail, but I think it is significant.
Hi Bruce
1. even where Jim may not respond to you as "teaching him" where there is "hypocrisy"
maybe it is for the Christians here to learn and explain that to each other.
if no one else benefits from your sharing here, I do. I see it as helpful and constructive.
If there are flaws with your presentation, so there are equal flaws with how Christians preach in a rejecting negative way that you don't respond to either for the same reason.
So they either cancel out, or both equally fall short where two wrongs don't make a right,
but neither side is more or less at fault than the other in this manner.
The point is still made, that we don't receive each other's points as well
if we are busy insulting each other or defending ourselves from attack.
Any counselor or mediator knows the emotional and personal attacks
have to be vented out or put aside first, if the issues at stake are going to be communicated.
We are attempting to point out corrections without an agreed facilitator or process to
referee for us, so this is what we get.
I try to get your points, because I can forgive the messy process going on
and not blame you or Jim for how you react to each other. I don't hold that against
the valid points you are both trying to make. I think the term I was looking for is "righteous indignance."
I don't hold "speaking perfectly without bias or flaw or negativity/blame"
as a "condition" on whether the content is valid.
I see you try to stick to the points I am trying to make, and not go off too much on how poorly
I may present them, so thanks for that effort to sort the wheat from the chaff.
2. Thanks for your explanation that were focusing on just things Paul listed.
For your point that forgiveness is not one of the fruits of the spirit,
it is more like a factor in the process that allows the branch to live or die or produce fruit at all.
If the circulation is cut off from the branch, due to unforgiveness, the branch will die and not produce these fruits.
Paul's teachings are a subset of the entire message of Christ.
I find if we deal with the roots of fear and unforgiveness that skew the whole process,
many of these other issues will resolve themselves in that process, when more positive energy flows through our
hearts, minds and relations with others; instead of negative cycles of division and rejection we feed with fear and unforgiveness.
3. as for this point about the doctor subjecting you to torment if you don't comply.
in the case of natural laws of health and healing,
the DISEASE that the body falls to when healing is obstructed
is what causes the sickness and torment and suffering.
The DOCTOR does not cause the DISEASE, but is trying to offer the cure to it,
to REMOVE the virus or infection or whatever is preventing the wound
or broken bone from healing.
We are suffering from the natural consequences of sickness or imbalance.
Now, if people want to "blame God" for why the body or mind will not heal itself
when we do not forgive, and we instead let negative energy and stress plug
or block off the natural flow, sure lots of people can do that.
I just ask to be consistent.
If we are going to be unhappy about the way the body and things in the world fail,
then also be happy when they work correctly.
We don't have to personify this as God and thank any creator or entity as the source.
But it does help to be "thankful in life" for what we do have that works peacefully.
When we keep a positive or open perception, this is better for our health,
our relations, and the results or satisfaction we get out of life.
When we hold on to negative reactions and rejection or closed or divided conditions
on relationships, we attract more stress and negativity that detracts from our
health and enjoyment in life, inside and out, internally and in relations with others, and collectively. Studies on forgiveness and health have shown this makes a difference.
This is a natural law of cause and effect.
We can study how things work, how human psychology works and what people respond to and what makes changes more difficult or painful, and what makes life less stressful.
and we will find the same effects of forgiveness and unforgiveness work for all people
regardless of our religious affiliations or beliefs.
We don't have to believe in or attribute this to any God
to work with the same laws of nature and improve our
lives, health and relationships. And collectively this impacts society as a whole,
made up of other people choosing either to forgive and pursue corrections together,
or to project fear and blame and stay divided and resentful of others.
We can study the results of both paths, and decide which works better.
We don't have to be theist or nontheist, but can be of any background
and come to similar conclusions that we are more effective at resolving
the causes of social and physical ills when we DON'T waste time
energy or resources staying divided and blaming other people or groups.