I have made the same case coming from the other direction.
People are driven to their faith by fear. Fear of death and fear of the unknown. They can accept the most outlandish things if trading their reason provides them with the desperately coveted false sense of security.
We may agree more than I thought.
Yes, fear of the unknown is the root of all the other fears.
I agree and was just discussing this with a friend yesterday
who bases all his professional counseling on fear management.
I find fear of change is probably the worst culprit of all,
where physical death is a critical "spiritual change" but not the only one we make a mess of.
we are just as afraid of death of relationships, death of the economy etc.
people have chosen physical death out of fear of losing a relationship or losing a job/home,
because the sense of control was more important. some things are worse than death.
so I summarize these as
* fear of death
* fear of change/loss of control
* fear of conflict/confrontations
as the three levels of
spiritual/mental/physical
that the positive and negative sides of trinity represent
(where fear of change or control issues tend to reflect or repeat as "daddy issues/authority issues with govt and romantic male/female issues"
and fear of confrontations in communications tend to be tied to "mommy issues and family relations"
and how resolved we are with our past conflicts are so we don't keep repeating or projecting our conflicting biases forward on future relations or on church-state politics collectively)
that counselor friend of mine phrases this as
* fear
* stress
* anxiety
as the three levels he focuses on which also relate to
* individual or internal fear
* fear in relationship with others
* fears connected with collective society
my favorite quote from Dr. MLK Jr is on fear:
"Men often hate each other because they fear each other; they fear each other because they don't know each other; they don't know each other because they can not communicate; they can not communicate because they are separated."
Thanks Bruce for your help to try to communicate more clearly
to get over these fears that we are all out to get each other.
I hope more of us come to understand we are really not each other's enemies, but our best hope for correcting errors and faults we cannot see for our own biases we project,
so that it takes someone coming from another angle, who doesn't think or assume the same things we do, to point out the things we too easily overlook or take for granted.
It is ironic how the people who have the most to offer us often think the least like us and disagree from the most polarized opposite view.
I hope you do not give up and others do not give up trying to understand you,
but we recognize we all have valid points and objections or corrections to share,
and work as diligently to carve away the coal to get to the valuable diamonds inside.
From my experience, the more work it takes to resolve conflicts and reach a mutual understanding,
the more valuable the insights gained from the exchange, the more rare the gems we find after cutting all else away.
May you uncover a wealth of diamonds in all the people and minds you cut down to the core.