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had to think about this for a few days before I could respond.. It really is a good question..
I really appreciated your response thank you. Perhaps some of us can help you realize that you were not with Christians in your youth. You were with wolves in sheeps clothing.
After about a week or so the problems started.. First?? I was told I had to change the kind of music I liked.. I am a child of the 80's so it was Madonna, Phil Collins, Bon Jovi, Duran Duran, ect. ect. Phil Collins was half of a group called Genesis, and some of thier songs have a christion tone to them.. Well.. I didn't like that.. There was nothing wrong with my music.. Then I was told my parents were of the devil.. They didn't even know my parents..
These people were totally out of line with human decency and with the teachings of Jesus. They invented their own doctrines.
How could they make that judgement especially when the bible says not to??
They can't.
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never got my prayer language.. For those that don't know.. That is speaking in tongues.. So?? I made one up.. Using a line from the movie 'Excalibur'.. The spell that Merlin used in the movie.. It worked and they bought it..
I think that's hilarious. Also it is NOT of God to spout off in languages that have no meaning to the hearer. It is confusion and is of the devil and not God. God's lessons always enlighten the mind and understanding. Clarity is of God. The true use of tongues is when necessary arrangements cannot be made for the translation of doctrinal sermons from one language to another. On the day of Pentecost there were many different peoples who did not speak the same language. The miracle occured when the speakers were inspired by God to speak in the hearer's native tongue. The purpose was for clarity, not for confusion. The devil's counterfeit is to become "possessed" either actually or pretended and wrought upon to speak in strange utterances, whether real or pretended.
The next issue, was that we were encouraged to sleep with other kids of the opposite sex.. I was 15 and the sleeping arrangments always put me with a 14 year old girl named Tracey or 15 year old Rebecca.. Sex was encouraged.. Even though David, the other boy my age and his partner were in the same room as us.. So you had Tracey and I and Rebecca and David in the same room.. Or the girls would switch.. We never had sex, and the girls were often blamed for it..
Good for you kids not giving in to the pressure. Obviously there is no biblical basis for such instruction and I cringe at the kind of people you were around. I don't blame you for your dislike of "Christians".
There was a 7 year old boy there named Micha.. He had got a splinter in his hand from the barn.. It became badly infected, yet they refused to take him to the hospital.. They wanted to cure him with prayer.. After about a week or so, his thumb became black and he started to sleep more and more.. The two older boys, myself and David called 911 after everyone was in bed asleep.. We went to the hospital with him and he was admitted on sight.. He spent almost a week recieving intense antibiotics to save his thumb.. Doctor said that had we waited much longer he would have lost it, perhaps his entire hand.. DSHS was notified as all these kids were foster kids and they shut down, and were brought up on criminal charges.. David and I were not foster kids..
these so called zealots misunderstand the doctrine of healing by faith. God is the one who inspired medicine. Miracle healings are only reserved for when all else fails. God wants us to take care of ourselves with the elements he has provided in our natural environment.
As I became an adult.. I have never met or seen a christian that I would want to consider a friend.. I find them to be racist, ignorant, hateful, spiteful, extremely judgemental, and over all unchristian.. Please understand, this is an observation.. Some of the christians on this board match that description.. Now you may say that I am judging christians.. Well.. I was not commanded not to.. But reguardless.. I am not condemning them in any way.. Except that I choose not to be friends when them.. Which is my right.. I am not saying they are going to go to hell, or they can't get married..
It's too bad you have been unlucky enough to have only met pretended Christians.
Why are christians against the idea of global warming and mans responsibility??
I am one who is not. But many Christians ignore global warming for the same reasons that little boy was not taken to the hospital. Assuming God will take care of everything. And he will, but that is not a license to pollute our planet that God has provided for us.
Why do they call liberals tree huggers??
Well some are overly "environmental" and it's not just some Christians who call them that. Certainly not all Christians. And some are smart enough to know that not all liberals are tree huggers.
Why aren't they tree huggers?? God left them responsible for them planet.. Why don't they want to take care of it??
I believe in protecting our environment and cutting down on excess. I love trees. I don't know if that makes me a tree hugger but I am anti pollution. We should all clean up after ourselves. I don't think that has anything to do with party affiliation or religion. It's just commons sense.
Religions history is littered with death and bloodshed..
It is not the religion that is to be blamed usually, but the evil people who use it as their shield by misinterpreting true doctrines.
Things that the christians church has yet to take resonsibility for.. Which brings up another point.. The belief that all you have to do is take Christ in your heart and youi will be saved.. So?? You can live your entire life as a child rapist, a murder, and a thief, and on your death bed take Christ in your heart and you will be saved??? Someone who has lived a good life, helped his fellow man, done the best he could but is an athiest is going to hell??? I think not..
There is no "Christian church". they are all separate from each other . There is only one true church of Christ and that is the one and only church Jesus assembled himself. All others are pretenders that give true Christians a bad name.
The doctrine of salvation by lipservice is a doctrine of the devil. It simply cannot be true logically, mathematically or philosophically. It just doesn't make sense and was NEVER taught by Jesus or his apostles. So called "Christians" have twisted the words of the Bible to excuse their behavior and invented doctrine of lipservice salvation.
Judgment is not dealt by man. It is dealt out by God with regard to the purity of a man's heart, and not with the name of his Church.
So what did it for me?? Christians aren't people that want to help other people.. Sure they have charities.. But seriously.. I don't see to many christians on this board supporting a public option for healthcare..
Well have you asked any of us? And have you asked us why we support what we support?
I don't see to many christians supporting gay marriage.. After all they were commanded not to judge.. Sure, they can know and feel that homosexuality is wrong.. But it isn't for them to act on it.. It isn't for them to pass judgement and condemn.. Christians don't listen to their own bible and their own teachings..
On this we may have to disagree. The Bible has spoken much by way of condemnation of the practice, but not so much the person. True Christians love all people, regardless of their weaknesses. They realize that some are tempted some ways and some tempted other ways. Some have a weakness for the temptation of homosexuality but not in other regards. That doesn't make others better than them. We all suffer from vices that make us all equally unworthy. A liar isn't more acceptable than a homosexual. A thief isn't better than a murderer. All sins are equally unacceptable in the sight of God.
No one should condemn another because of their imperfection. This is the doctrine of Christ. Those who condemn homosexuals to hell are no different than the Pharisees of Jesus day who look for the mote in the eye of the homosexual but ignore the beam of hypocrisy in their own eyes. Such people are in more danger than the people they condemn. Are not those the words of Jesus? Judge for yourself.
When I was a child being a christian put a badge on you of being good and righteous.. Now?? To me it means you are what is wrong with humanity..
Hopefully I have helped to change your perspective.