Hopefully I have helped to change your perspective.
I wouldn't say you have changed my perspective.. But perhaps given me hope that not all Christians are idiots..
For reasons stated earlier.. I am not a Christian.. I have however done some research into the bible and know a little about what it says..
Of course, you decide who is or is not an idiot, right? I suppose you believe that judging and condemning people is OK, right?
“Judge not, that ye be not judged” (Matthew 7:1) and “Judge not, and ye shall not be judged, condemn not and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven” (Luke 6:37)
Those two versus basically say that Christians shouldn't pass judgment or condemn anyone.. So?? On the gay marriage front.. While you can say and believe it is wrong.. It isn't for you to make that judgment and condemn them to less rights than say someone else.. Voting against gay marriage is unchristian.. Just because you vote for gay marriage doesn't mean you personally approve of them.. But you are allowing them the same rights as everyone else..
I know this will not go far through your perspective blinders, but I will address it anyway. If God has already made a judgment, and even a condemnation, I would say that agreeing with Him is not wrong. I also would say that If we measure morality according to the Words of God, the measurement would not be from our judgmental perspective, but according to God's. There is nowhere in the Bible that God ever addresses marriage in terms of anything other than a man and a woman. Parents are always a husband and wife. Marriage is significant in the scriptures, and it seems to me like if gay marriage was appropriate it would have been addressed. However, In a round-about way I believe it has been addressed. Sex outside of marriage is condemned by God. Sexual activity between members of the same sex is also condemned. Both of these would have to mean that a marriage between members of the same sex would be inappropriate, a sin. Marriage is mainly for procreation, and same sex marriages cannot do that.
Voting for gay marriage, when we believe that is a sin, would be a sin for us. a vote for is an approval of. If I don't approve of any candidate for a particular office, I don't vote for one of them. I know that doesn't make a difference in the election, but I also believe that when I vote for someone I approve of them. If I can write in another name, I will.
With that said, I do believe we are supposed to love homosexuals. I believe we are to love everyone. As a matter of fact, I will carry that further, I don't believe a Christian is living out their Christian life if they can hate anyone. I even believe they may not be a Christian at all. However, calling sin, sin, and not liking a behavior, is not wrong. We can judge a behavior, but not the person.
"And when you pray, you must not be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, that they may be seen by men. Truly, I say to you they have received their reward. But when you pray, go into your room (or closet.) and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret..." (Matthew 6:5-6 RSV)
This verse always sorta confused me in that Jesus seems to be saying not to go to church.. Which in a way also makes sense in that I believe that someone's relationship with god and Christ should be private and personal.. Yet Christians congregate into these mega churches and have no problems with public displays of their beliefs.. So which Christians is it I see on television or on the news??
This verse was talking about hypocrites. It is saying for Christians not to be like them. It is basically saying that prayer has no motive or agenda outside of the personal talk with God. It needs not be seen or heard by others. However, the verse does not say never to pray in public. Even Jesus prayed in public. We are instructed to "pray without ceasing". This would indicate that we can pray anywhere, and even then no one would necessarily know we are praying. So, certainly in our homes and in the closet, are not the only places we should pray. "public display" for recognition is certainly not appropriate.
Christians are also instructed to gather together for worship and prayer. The church is created for that purpose. God attends our rime together. Scriptures say that "God inhabits the praises of His people." It also says, "Where two or three are gathered in My name, there I am also."
So, I can see why you are " sorta confused." Your perspective is controlling what you see.
Exodus 22:16-17 says that a raped virgin must marry her seducer or rapist..
While this has been passed off as being old testament?? How can Christians pick and choose what they will believe or won't? Creation is old testament as is the 10 commandments..
All I really need to say here is that when you say, "I have however done some research into the bible and know a little about what it says.. " Your "some research" seems to have been guided by your controlling perspective, and that is why you " know a
little about what it says.. " Not trying to be mean here, just pointing out the fact that those who have given their lives to Bible study and research, and who were able to overcome their perspective biases, do know far more than you or I. I think you might want to give their work a little review. Oh, and I am talking about researchers who agree with, disagree with, and who have overcome both biases in order to discover what the Bible really says.
In other words, on the verse above, you need to do a lot more study.
Christians condemn someone for getting an abortion yet neglect to mention that they are telling one of the largest lies in history.. Which is breaking a commandment law..
We must love those who have abortions. We must not condemn them. However, depending on the reason for the abortion, we can certainly identify it as sin. I don't believe Christians condemn those who have abortions, I believe for the most part they love them. However, sadly there is that minority group who fall away from God's command to love them. This is a subject dear to my heart, and I do love those who have had abortions.
Jesus Christ was not born on Dec. 25th.. He was born in March. So biblically.. Christmas has no association with Christ.. Unless it is in contradiction..
So how does Christianity carry on with these blatant lies??
We don't celebrate the date, we celebrate the event. Most non-believers cannot seem to get that. Oh, we don't know when Jesus was actually born, and your pointing it out that it was in March is an assumption. It may be correct, but still not any more than an assumption. You don't even understand Christmas, so I certainly don't think your little Bible research has much credibility. Rather than calling Christians liars, you need to stop listening to the lies of those who are anti-Christians. That is where you are getting your information. I think that is where most of your research is done, on their websites.
Josh McDowell began research to discredit Christianity and the Bible, as a result of that effort, He became one who has discovered the truth far deeper than most Christians and others in the world. Read "
Evidence that Demands a Verdict". Either version.
Note: I put this through a spell check and both of our errors were corrected. Hope that is OK.