High Divorce Rate in the United States

You never quit. Screws are loose.

I'm not going to allow a false allegation or narrative.

Live a life that I have, then judge. Many would have cracked. They would have done so many years ago.

You are an American, you don't appreciate the experience of other nations. It's why you're the envy of the world. Some of us just shake our heads at how good you have it and the lack of understanding to this point.
 
The divorce rate in the USA is much higher than the divorce rate worldwide. I wonder why a country with such a strong economy like ours should have so many divorces.

Maybe some women who want to vote for the first colored vagina, have pushed away the ones they married because the men with balls, have decided that the vagina will not make the men with balls any better off.
 
I'm not going to allow a false allegation or narrative.

Live a life that I have, then judge. Many would have cracked. They would have done so many years ago.

You are an American, you don't appreciate the experience of other nations. It's why you're the envy of the world. Some of us just shake our heads at how good you have it and the lack of understanding to this point.
Still whining
 
Did she cheat on you?
No... we were childhood friends... her parents and mine were good friends.... we grew up on the same street... we... or she got pregnant and we got married and I enlisted to try and provide for her and newborn twins while she went to nursing school...
Times were hard... so she wanted better... and I understood...
 
The divorce rate in the USA is much higher than the divorce rate worldwide. I wonder why a country with such a strong economy like ours should have so many divorces.

The original basis for marriage was the legitimacy of inheritance by children who were borne by the wife. This contributed to the stability of families and societies. The idea of romantic love as a basis for marriage is a relatively modern notion. In today's narcissistic society, marriage and children are often viewed as enhancements of one's social standing. When these fail fail to produce the desired results, replacements are sought. 80% of divorce petitions are filed by women. Given the likelihood of being condemned to decades of punitive servitude if dissolved, men should be terrified at the thought of marriage today.
 
The original basis for marriage was the legitimacy of inheritance by children who were borne by the wife. This contributed to the stability of families and societies. The idea of romantic love as a basis for marriage is a relatively modern notion. In today's narcissistic society, marriage and children are often viewed as enhancements of one's social standing. When these fail fail to produce the desired results, replacements are sought. 80% of divorce petitions are filed by women. Given the likelihood of being condemned to decades of punitive servitude if dissolved, men should be terrified at the thought of marriage today.
Marriage should be about a.shared belief in G-d.and the vows to.one another. This is why I am not a big fan of the automatic common-law after.living together.two years which we have in Ontario, hough I understand it.
 
I've been married for 51 years, never a significant problem. My son (only child) was married for 8 years, had three kids, then divorced. He states that essentially all of his HS friends are divorced.

This may be from out of Left Field, but I wonder if reliable Birth Control plays a part in the deterioration of the nuclear family. After the BC pill became ubiquitous, our entire society went to shit.
 
The divorce rate in the USA is much higher than the divorce rate worldwide. I wonder why a country with such a strong economy like ours should have so many divorces.


Obvious answer: we are end stage Rome.

We don't understand the meaning and value of marriage. We don't understand a lot, so of course, we just follow our real god....as the Bible puts it, "our stomach"
 
I've been married for 51 years, never a significant problem. My son (only child) was married for 8 years, had three kids, then divorced. He states that essentially all of his HS friends are divorced.

This may be from out of Left Field, but I wonder if reliable Birth Control plays a part in the deterioration of the nuclear family. After the BC pill became ubiquitous, our entire society went to shit.

We have lost the idea that life is hard and marriage can be too at times, for us, especially when our kids were young.
 
Too much Reality TV, lack of faith in G-d and our vows. I took my vows so seriously that I suffered from the abuse.\
But the USA is much more religious than Canada, Europe or Australia. Why is our divorce rate higher?
 
The divorcees I dated complained about a lack of interest from their former spouses.

Because frankly they don't understand or value the Biblical model for marriage, which is simple but works very well.

Men long to be respected.

Women long to be cherished.

If you align yourself with God first and then understand His plan for marriage, this feedback loop of respect-admiration is amazing
 
My wife and I have been married for 31 plus years. We have had our rocky times as any marriage does but nothing ever too serious. We broke all the "rules" when we got married. We met in a bar, had sex on our first real date and got married 11 months after meeting, during those 11 months we were a "long distance relationship" before the advent of cellphone, email or texting.

We have often been accused of being co-dependent on each other to which I am always like "yeah, what is your point?". Is that not the way we should be? We still hold hands when out together and still have PDA. We moved into a new house a couple years ago and after a few months our new neighbor asked my wife if the kids were from a previous marriage as she assumed we were newlyweds due to our "PDA".

Out of all our son's friends, we are the only set of parents still married. My wife and I both came from broken homes and we learned from them what not do to. I think this is one of our keys to success.
 
I've been married for 51 years, never a significant problem. My son (only child) was married for 8 years, had three kids, then divorced. He states that essentially all of his HS friends are divorced.

This may be from out of Left Field, but I wonder if reliable Birth Control plays a part in the deterioration of the nuclear family. After the BC pill became ubiquitous, our entire society went to shit.
Our society was shit before the pill.
 
Because frankly they don't understand or value the Biblical model for marriage, which is simple but works very well.

Men long to be respected.

Women long to be cherished.

If you align yourself with God first and then understand His plan for marriage, this feedback loop of respect-admiration is amazing

One should not need the bible to tell them this.
 
All of my sons friends are divorced. One only lasted 6 months before both wanted out. I think my sons lasted because they both agreed on a one child household.
 
Because frankly they don't understand or value the Biblical model for marriage, which is simple but works very well.

Men long to be respected.

Women long to be cherished.
Men being respected and women being cherished sounds like a formula to keep women quiet and infantilized
 
One divorcee I dated loved rough sex and said her husband was not very adventurous in the bedroom.
 
But the USA is much more religious than Canada, Europe or Australia. Why is our divorce rate higher?
I don't think the USA is any more religious than other countries.
 
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