Dear Dante and Drifter:...
Thank you,
Emily
I like the thought you put into your posts, thanks for the shout out
but she seems oblivious to replies.
Dear Dante and Drifter:
Sorry I did try to reply to Dante!
Drifter thanks for your words of encouragement.
Between your feedback if I can clarify my messages
i won't come across so much as a troll or whatever!
I really am trying to iron out what differences can be
resolved and what are the key points of contigency
that would benefit from being called out and addressed here.
Thank you both
Yours truly,
Emily
And no I wouldn't call Dante "worldly" though nontheists often
do have a keener natural ability to focus more "objectively and empirically"
than people who perceive spiritual ideas outside the secular realm. (I have
some friends so spiritually gifted in this area, that when it comes to logistic
business they are completely lost because their minds don't focus that way)
Whatever you call that, being able to focus in plain black and white where
the human eye is otherwise confused by diverse colors can be a strength.
Of course the ideal is to use both to the best advantages, since
any strength can be a weakness, and any weakness can be a strength
in different contexts.
And no I would not say Hitler and Gandhi were both "sincere";
if one has more forgiveness and compassion than unforgiveness for others,
this affects your judgment because the mind has to go into denial about the
pain and suffering it is costing someone else you are holding unequal to yourself.
If you mean "committed," Hitler may have well been more committed in his actions than someone who takes a more relative approach of including diverse input and thus come across as being more scattered and less focused than Hitler was in his intent.
But I would not word that in terms of sincerity, I would use a different word there.
Driven or committed? Sincerity would not be fair if you are excluding the denial involved.
Sorry to go on about a minor point that is interesting to me because I
have run into it in my own experiences.
In the peace and justice community, which strives to act by consensus and nonviolence, I have found a handicap when activists within the group have conflicts between them, and their very conscientiousness prevents them from working together until this is resolved.
So instead of being as "ruthless as the bad guys" who out of selfish desire for profit would team up with even their enemies to mow someone else down for money, these sensitive conscientious types will protest what they perceive to be wrong with what the other is doing and not be as unified as if those less unconscionable who don't care about ethics!
So again what are strengths can sometimes be a weakness, and I have urged many activists to be as ruthless about doing good as the "bad guys" protested for doing wrong.
if they can forgive each other's pasts to team up and conspire to do evil, surely people with good intentions can forgive wrongs and team up to conspire to do good! We can still learn to be more effective from how others abuse these same tactics we can use in good ways.