First dates

Avatar4321 said:
Now that Ive finished a major part of my workload this semester im looking to go out alittle more. Anyone have any decent first date ideas? how can i sweep some girls off their feet?

how about some advice from someone who IS a woman?

It depends on HER. First, take note of what she dresses like on a regular basis. Also, look at the car she drives, or what other mode of transportation she takes. Find out what her major is (if she has one). These are all likely to tell you her personality or style before you talk to her and find out she's liberal and you are conservative.

Find out who her friends are and ask them questions about her likes and dislikes. Be open and don't act like a stalker. Come right out and tell them you are interested, but you want to know more about her before you actually ask, so that you are less likely to, say, take a vegan to Outback Steakhouse or a sushi bar.

Once you know about her more, ask her out on a date that will play to her interests, and also YOURS. Be creative with the dates.

Also, you may want to see the movie Hitch with Will Smith. It actually has GREAT points for creative dates and I found it to be right on target with a lot of stuff.
Doing all of this strikes Me as being a bit of a stalker.

It's one thing to find out some things about her, but I'd do that in a more casual setting. Going to her friends and asking questions when you haven't even had a first date would be creepy to most people.
 
Now that Ive finished a major part of my workload this semester im looking to go out alittle more. Anyone have any decent first date ideas? how can i sweep some girls off their feet?
Grab a quick bite (of food) and maybe take her to a magic show or something like that. Look at your community calendar and see what's going on in the community. Sometimes they have late summer or early fall festivals. Things like that.
 
This thread is over a decade old. Why did you resurrect it?
I'm going on a first date tonight. Why would I create wa thread title that already exists. Does that make sense? I hate it when I am looking for an old thread I've started I have created too many threads. I used to start them after every thought. Now I search the subject and continue an existing thread.

I'm getting ready for my date. I went to Nordstrom and Macy's. Who spends $175 for a shirt?

Stupid wealthy people?
My brother would have bought that shirt. I would have 40% off
 
Now that Ive finished a major part of my workload this semester im looking to go out alittle more. Anyone have any decent first date ideas? how can i sweep some girls off their feet?

Coffee if you're not sure if you like the girl. If you're sure you like her go for cocktails at a nice lounge.
 
Now that Ive finished a major part of my workload this semester im looking to go out alittle more. Anyone have any decent first date ideas? how can i sweep some girls off their feet?

Show them a good time. Are you in your home city?

Show them some things around town that you know about that are cool that outsiders might not.
 
Someday I might get to do that with the right person.

Last time I did something like that. I just wanted to get out the house, I took this black..dude with me to see the guys I know that play music perform. As expected, they did quite well, here's the thing, I grew up with the waitress there that night, and she is soooo hot!

I'm out with this dude just to get out the house. :uhoh3: And it's one out of five of the finest women I've ever known. She feeds me 5 pitchers and runs a tab and at the end she's like: "Oh, Just gimme 5 bucks"

I gave her a 10, I wish I would have got her number.

All in all, it was a good night. I knew the band, I knew the waitress, and the music was good. Oh yeah, the drinks were cheap, too!
 
Well at least you got a raise...
Holy shit!!! I just met a Cuban lady at the dog park. She's closer to my age. 43 and I'm 55. She is BEAUTIFUL! So sweet. I'm staying in Fort Lauderdale, FL for a month and we were going to meet at the local dog park. She said she was at a different park and it turned out to be 30 miles away. In Miami. I was glad to go check out Miami. I get there and the park is right on the water and BEAUTIFUL. We spent most of the day on the dock watching the boats and talking. She is so sweet. At the beginning of the date her son was facetiming her. He wanted to meet me to make sure I wasn't some creep. He looked like Bad Bunny! LOL.

Then we went to a outside pizza place in downtown Miami. What a beautiful night.

Why Holy Shit? Because I just got a raise. So when I met the Belarussian, I just got a raise? And I just got a raise and met this Cuban? What a coincidence?

The raise I got in 2017 was HUGE. This one was just a cost of living increase. But I'll take it!!!!

She's low 40's, I'm 55. She told me age is not important to her. What's in your heart is. And let's be honest. I'm a very sweet guy.

Oh, and she likes Trump. So no one is perfect.
 
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Take her to a movie. Buy a bucket of popcorn for the two of you to share. Cut a hole in the bottom of the bucket put your hoo-haw in there. Then, during the movie, as she is digging around for popcorn, she will get snake bit!!
 
Now that Ive finished a major part of my workload this semester im looking to go out alittle more. Anyone have any decent first date ideas? how can i sweep some girls off their feet?
I took my wife to a Bingo hall for our first date. She won a big pot. She exclaimed, "This is the best date I've ever been on!"

For our second date, I took her to a public library a couple towns over. A local astronomy club had set up various telescopes on the front lawn. We watched Jupiter and Saturn whiz by as though they were an arm's distance away. We saw the moon as up-close as the astronauts did.

On our third date, we chased the Hale-Bopp comet, following a biker named Psycho into a remote area where there was no light pollution. Along the way, I turned to my future wife and said, "We're following a biker called Psycho to a remote, dark place!" :lol:
 
I had just bought a brand new Jeep when I picked up my future wife for our first date. I picked her up literally across the street from the dealership. So the thing had a tenth of a mile on it.

My future wife got in and promptly spilled her coffee into the gear shift.

The only reason there was a second date is because she is haaawwwwwwwt!

I think it was less than a month later when she spilled a milkshake into the gear shift.

After that, she enacted a voluntary No Beverages policy for the Jeep.
 
I took my wife to a Bingo hall for our first date. She won a big pot. She exclaimed, "This is the best date I've ever been on!"

For our second date, I took her to a public library a couple towns over. A local astronomy club had set up various telescopes on the front lawn. We watched Jupiter and Saturn whiz by as though they were an arm's distance away. We saw the moon as up-close as the astronauts did.

On our third date, we chased the Hale-Bopp comet, following a biker named Psycho into a remote area where there was no light pollution. Along the way, I turned to my future wife and said, "We're following a biker called Psycho to a remote, dark place!" :lol:

On our first date we went to Miami. She said it was the best date she had ever been on.

On our second date we went on a bike ride down the A1A. She said it was the best date she'd ever been on.

On our 3rd date I took her to Disneyworld and then later that night we made love. She said it was the worst date she had ever been on.
 
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