One was a nurse and probably the healthiest. She was so naturally beautiful no one would ever have believed she was ever a guy. She just liked men that beat her.
One was an exmarine. A Viet Nam veteran with a box full of medals. He was paying some kind of penance for killing women. He could never be a woman. He didn't like men. He did realize he made a mistake with the trans surgery. Right before he killed himself.
One was a client. He wanted at least visitation with his children. He was a big, burly, motorcycle mechanic. He was tattooed up the wazoo with skulls, motorcycle riding skeletons and 1 percent. He normally needed a shave and slathered makeup over his stubble. He wore dresses even to work on the bikes. And long dangle earrings. I fought pretty hard, but he insisted on going to court like he went to work. He was never allowed to see his children. They were even excluded from the courtroom.
Those are my top three creepiest. They all had some underlying mental derangement. Those that didn't make the top three also had some barely buried disorder. Just like those who think if their hands were cut off they would feel normal. Your church friends are no different. You just don't see it.