The original evolutionary source for society is survival through cooperation, empathy, self sacrifice, etc.
But when society invents surplus production (agriculture and technology), wealth, and currency, then you get mercenaries, crime, and war.
All societies have a choice if they want to defend against greedy violence, or engage in greedy violence
When you choose engaging in greedy violence, like ancient Rome, 1600 Spain, WWI France/England, current US, then your own social order breaks down and your own society soon falls apart, even though you have the technological ability to destroy others in the process.
So I agree with you.