I don't know if this helps at all, but some Christian denominations delight in telling other Christian denominations (primarily Catholics) that they are going to hell. It is almost as though they have been told there is no need to look after their own soul, so they go in search of another soul to tend. One of the adverse side-effects of "Once saved, always saved." Should come with a warning that it might cause one to act like a busy-body.
From one who has heard those same words...water off a duck's back. I find that the beauty of the nearest flower makes all things right with the world once more.